Ones with adult kids

[sfreeman8]

My son. Lives with us.  I worry if he's  20  minutes late. Coming  home  work.  I'd  call  or. Text. days  3  is. long enough.

That is a "WOW-that could be me!" posting.  My son moved in with us temporarily in Nov.  He comes and goes. Don't know where or when he'd be home. He wasn't been saying anything when he first moved in...I think it's because he was on his own for so long, he forgets there are other people in the household. Anyway, I now corner him on his way out to find out where he's going and when he'd be back.  He will tell me except when he'd be back. He doesn't know.  This week he surprised me...he's been telling me where he's going but still not when he's coming back. So he's making progress. 

[mrsmere]

I think it's a generational thing also.  My sons  are in their 30's but we all have trackers on the phone still so anyone can be located easily.  I've had to rescue my diabetic son before but they also text me regularly and if anything happens.  They have been in car accidents and call me before calling 911 which is weird but I'm glad keep me informed.

[plennis]

Just depends on how your family is, when my adult children were at home they always let me know where they were going and when they would be back.  Now, they have their own homes so they don't.  We do talk a lot though.