I can't get over her...

[flotowngolfer]

My girlfriend of 17 months just dumped me. i thought everything was fine... It's so hard to let go. I love her so much. She was my first. I'm honestly in shock. Se has a new guy now and I can't stand to see them together. Advice?

[flotowngolfer]

You're right. Thanks for the advice. She can just be so confusing, one minute it's I love you, the next it's I can't see us being together long term...

[mc1962]

My girlfriend of 17 months just dumped me. i thought everything was fine... It's so hard to let go. I love her so much. She was my first. I'm honestly in shock. Se has a new guy now and I can't stand to see them together. Advice?

........Time will heal you.  I know its hard but just know that you will feel better as time goes by.  I am a strong believer that if things are meant to be then they will be, you can't force love.  Give her space and if you really feel love for her then all you can do is wish her well in her life and step out of the picture.  There is someone in this world for everyone and even if fate does not put you two together then hang in there and love will find you.  You seem to be a youngster and losing a girl can really hurt, but its better to hurt now then to hurt after you have discovered that the love had only been ONE sided after more time had gone by.

[BabyGurlAron06]

Your very young and I wouldn't worry about it. Seriously do you think you guys could last and get married and live a happily ever after life style? You probably wouldn't and if you did it probably wouldn't last.


She's young and so are you. Things like that do happen. She's probably confused. Or just doesn't know what she wants or doesn't want.

[gesus]

This is your Sad moment , take time out for yourself , lock yourself in the room , and think deep thoughts , DONT go out asap to the clubs & find other women , if u wanna do that with a group of friends sure thats fine , but give it sum time like a nice week , or weekend , the limit is a month for me , but hey take as much time as u need , to recover , its NOT the end of the world for you , i kno u wanna seek vengence revenge , kick the crap outta the new guy infront of her but Dont do it , Dont Run after her , You get urself together and come back on the soical scene in all glory , and she'll look at you from either a far or scretly tell you that u look nice , but ignore all of that and keep it moving on with ur life ...Good Luck 

[k20dc5]

find him and kill em ill help you   :-

[dreamyxo]

Sorry I don't have any real advice I'm still not over my first love that I stupidly broke up with over 14 years ago.  That saying that time heals all wounds is BS if you ask me. 

[MsMithra]

Sorry I don't have any real advice I'm still not over my first love that I stupidly broke up with over 14 years ago.  That saying that time heals all wounds is BS if you ask me. 

Amen to that. It's only been 1 year 7 months since me and my ex broke up, but I'm still not over him even though we haven't spoken since, nor seen each other.

[ShugaShayn]

I know it doesn't feel like you can move on or get over her but u will. It just takes patience and time.

[angietx]

If this is your first love, you will never forget or get over her.  You will always love her but you will move on.  I still remember my
first love and I........  Anyways, Im happily married and have been for 24 years.  Dont rush finding someone new, it will happen when
it happens.

[AmyTrivitt]

You never get over your first love, I remember mine but im happily married to the best man possible. Everyone goes through this stage in life. I know it sucks and its really hard, but over time you will see that no matter what everything happens for a reason. Keep your head held high.

[kscott12]

take sum time 4 yourself and try 2 let her go. there r plenty of fish in the sea

[kimberly67]

find some strange and u'll get over it

[klutzycutie]

Right now its rly tough especially when u just been dumped

my best friend was dumped by his ex

who he thought they were great together and she was still married

and yet never went bak to her husband and couldve gotten a divorce but never did

to make a long story short they were great until he did one small thing wrong and she broke up with him

he is STILL crushed bcuz he feels hes in love with her

so if it is love then i dunno wat to say but just be her friend at least

u wouldnt b to sure if its love unless u have gotten over her

if u have then u know it was a obessive love not love love

[nekro67]

Happened to me a few times too,it gets easier since i follow a rule of thumb...it takes only half the time you've been with that person to fully get over them.so if the relationship lasted several years,then you've got a long way to go,if it lasted a few months,it's not so bad.