Dating a control freak

[snuggleycutejc]

Maybe he is looking for someone that can brainwash him. Yup brainwashing is an art, than you will have a loyal lover.

[gwilson31]

Sounds like you two need to have a long talk (maybe he's having doubts too).

[jenniferhoder]

Run and change your locks. You are heading into troubled waters with that one.

[anitaraemillspalmer]

I would be running or send him/her running

[camellia0]

Don't let him move in. Does he have a decent job? Don't settle- love yourself, stay positive and you will eventually meet someone with similar interests but let him stay where he is. Don't change for anyone.

[fjaz1]

NO YOU have control, just LEAVE, geez

[JaniceSW]

Interesting replies. I don't think he'd ever hit me, but isn't that what they all say? I'd rather be alone than be with the wrong person too. Guess I have some thinking to do.

Yes, I think you do need to do some deep thinking about what you want and not what will make you happy necessarily, but what will give you peace of mind.  I believe your key words were you don't particularly like him.  This is so key. Sometimes we stay involved with someone because they meet some need we have but it's only a very partial picture. Look at the ther parts of the picture and read your post on here several times.  I think the answer to what you should do in this relationship is actually imbedded in your own post.