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camellia0

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What are the positive parts of being single?
« on: June 08, 2018, 06:40:37 pm »
You don't have anyone to answer to.
No one to argue with.
You can stay out as long as you want.
You can date as many different people as you want.

Can you think of any more?

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2018, 06:50:08 pm »
Not having to answer to noone

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #2 on: June 09, 2018, 02:14:22 pm »
I had no one to answer to and came and went whenever I wanted too. I traveled quit a bit also. But now the older I get the less I want to go any where.  And of course I lived in an apartment and had  now yard to take care on anything to have to do around the house like I do now.  But I also enjoy being married, but just once in awhile I miss the wonderlust and being by myself  at times. But not a whole lot.

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #3 on: June 09, 2018, 02:19:22 pm »
Total autonomy.
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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #4 on: June 09, 2018, 04:53:52 pm »
Costs a lot less at the super market, and NO dirty socks and bacon striped underwear to pick up!
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Yikes I hate picking up after a messy guy!   

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #5 on: June 09, 2018, 06:19:07 pm »
The positive is I don't have to answer to anyone, but there are some things that I miss like companionship and someone to love you.

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2018, 07:04:25 pm »
I can do as I please I have no one to answer to I don't have to ask what's for supper I can sleep in when I want I can buy what I want to eat at the store I can do Home Improvements that I want done just lots and lots of things

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #7 on: June 10, 2018, 01:10:38 pm »
You don't have anyone to answer to.
No one to argue with.
You can stay out as long as you want.
You can date as many different people as you want.

Can you think of any more?

You can do whatever you want when ever you want
Decorate the house however you want
Have as many pets as you want, let them sleep in your bed and no one can tell you no
You can eat what ever you want
You can wear whatever you want
You can go where you want to when you want to
You can go to bed when every you want
You can set the air/heat at what temp you want
You can buy what you want
You can watch what you want to on tv
You can cut your hair however you want

I am sure there are more.

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #8 on: June 10, 2018, 01:13:04 pm »
I had no one to answer to and came and went whenever I wanted too. I traveled quit a bit also. But now the older I get the less I want to go any where.  And of course I lived in an apartment and had  now yard to take care on anything to have to do around the house like I do now.  But I also enjoy being married, but just once in awhile I miss the wonderlust and being by myself  at times. But not a whole lot.

There are advantages to both I am sure.  I am sure people who are single miss things about being married.

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #9 on: June 10, 2018, 01:15:44 pm »
The positive is I don't have to answer to anyone, but there are some things that I miss like companionship and someone to love you.

Yeah but just because you have someone there doesn't mean they love you :(

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #10 on: June 10, 2018, 01:33:10 pm »
no one to blame but yourself when you're single, forces you to be completely self reliant

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #11 on: June 10, 2018, 02:21:25 pm »
I think you have answered most of them always but the other would be you have a lot more money.  :moneymouth:

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #12 on: June 10, 2018, 05:48:15 pm »
Don't have to fake the feelings.

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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #13 on: June 10, 2018, 06:54:55 pm »
You don't have anyone to answer to.
No one to argue with.
You can stay out as long as you want.
You can date as many different people as you want.

Can you think of any more?

Hello :D :)

I'm newly single but I can see the positives already, for instance, now I can take my time and figure out what I truly want. I can work on my finances more without neglecting my partner. Just feels good dating myself and taking care of myself. :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose: :heart: :rose:
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Re: What are the positive parts of being single?
« Reply #14 on: June 11, 2018, 04:57:03 am »

You can do whatever you want when ever you want
Decorate the house however you want
Have as many pets as you want, let them sleep in your bed and no one can tell you no
You can eat what ever you want
You can wear whatever you want
You can go where you want to when you want to
You can go to bed when every you want
You can set the air/heat at what temp you want
You can buy what you want
You can watch what you want to on tv
You can cut your hair however you want

I am sure there are more.


I'm not trying to be a smarta$$ here, but (in my experience anyway) several of the things on this list are true whether you are single or in a relationship. I'll grant that if you are in a controlling or abusive relationship that many of these absolutely apply, but in a loving and respectful relationship I think just about all of these are still present.

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