How do you judge a person?

[sbenkoski]

I thought I had it down with someone I'd been friends with for 45 years... boy was I wrong ! Found out something that really made me take an about face in a big hurry !  Yep you'll find me in the Guinness book under the worlds shortest engagement ,  try 5 hours!     

Did ya keep the ring and sell it? 

I'd never do that, i'll give it back !  And no flowers and gifts are going to fix this deal that's for sure. Nothing worse than lying in my books! 

[hitch0403]

I thought I had it down with someone I'd been friends with for 45 years... boy was I wrong ! Found out something that really made me take an about face in a big hurry !  Yep you'll find me in the Guinness book under the worlds shortest engagement ,  try 5 hours!     

Did ya keep the ring and sell it? 

I'd never do that, i'll give it back !  And no flowers and gifts are going to fix this deal that's for sure. Nothing worse than lying in my books! 

That was honorable Sben.Almost reminds me when Kristine gave the Phantom back his ring.Quite a moving part of the play<movie>.....GREAT music too!!

[makeblessed]

I try and not to judge because i do not want anyone judging me; for me it is more important to try and know their story as we all have one and sometimes depending on what  trials of life has come a person way they may act in a certain manner but that is not who they really are as a person.

[dsosnowski06]

I try not to judge them but do watch and observe them and then determine if this a person that I can trust.

[brian8713]

I try not to judge people, but it can be very hard to do, especially when someone you thought you could trust screws you over. I've had people screw me over on money countless times. I'd never trust anyone with a loan again.

[michele2042]

I don't judge unless I am aware of someone being cruel to another human being or animals.   There is a story that just came out about a teacher in Florida taking his students outside to have them watch him drown two raccoons who had been killing chickens the school was raising.   The held the raccoons in a cage under water while they struggled to get out.  People like that I feel like I can judge as a cruel person.   If I were the parent of one of those children I would also consider what he did as emotional abuse.    Those kind of folks I will judge.

[Mizzkizz7]

We are all prone to doing something that would make us a target for judgement. None of us are perfect so let God be the judge because we all have to face him one day.

[natashaspy]

I try not to judge people at all but sometimes it's really hard when someone is being intentionally stupid.  Then I can't help but to because of their actions.

[mrisha]

I never judge people by what I see on the exterior.  It's wrong and quite stupid of those who do things like that.

[debidoo]

By their level of kindness toward others.  By their honesty and ethics. Other than these things I try not to judge others because I really prefer others not to judge me.

[linderlizzie]

Like Dredd

Does this mean Judge Dredd? I loved that movie.

[linderlizzie]

God says not to judge because we will be judged by the same standards. I honestly think that the neatest people can appear to be not so great on first sight.

I also think that you can learn something from everyone you meet and from the most unlikely sources. I think that's fantastic! 

[linderlizzie]

I thought I had it down with someone I'd been friends with for 45 years... boy was I wrong ! Found out something that really made me take an about face in a big hurry !  Yep you'll find me in the Guinness book under the worlds shortest engagement ,  try 5 hours!     

I'm so sorry, girlfriend. A five hour engagement after knowing someone for 45 years? Woops! You and nrajoe better get together. When you both think it's time, of course. 

[linderlizzie]

I try not to judge people, but it can be very hard to do, especially when someone you thought you could trust screws you over. I've had people screw me over on money countless times. I'd never trust anyone with a loan again.

No one should ever trust anyone with a loan. I've done it and it turned out okay, but it's a terrible policy. 

[hkckk5]

I don't think I judge anyone. I also know that I hope people are not judging me for I should only be judged by God.