I hear ya. I've cut back on everything I can to make ends meet, but our life insurance kills me. For the 2 of us, I'm paying over $200 a month and because of our health problems in the past, no other insurance will touch us with a 10-foot pole or the payments are the same amount or higher. So it's either drop it or pay it. It's only for $25K, too. I've sold a couple things but even that doesn't come close. I've applied for an SNAP card and qualified for $15 a month. Whoppee! For 2 of us! Hubby refused to use it so they canceled it. We cut way back on food. i used to spend $150 a week plus we used to get a half steer and half pig every year. Now I spend $150 a month if possible. Sometimes none at all. We applied for Liheap (heat/electric) program but we're over the income guidelines by $50. I'm already on the budget plan for electric service and that goes up every year, too.
Sometimes I feel it's not worth being frugal all your life and paying everything off before retirement because you're still stuck with living expenses and property taxes which go up every year. We've already cashed in our IRA's to pay the taxes.
We get $196 in food stamps a month for our family of 4. we used to get more until I got a better job and we have really had to change the way we eat.
The biggest hardship for us is the car insurance. with living in a small town and my son having to be hospitalize every so often for breathing problems we have decided that 2 cars is really must.
some days thou I wonder if it would just be cheaper to let him drive me back and forth to worth. but at 5 days a week I would be then spending $10 a night on gas that adds an extra $100 to gas for that. and the extra insurance is $188.
It just seems like society today makes it hard to get ahead if I work more to pay for other stuff our food goes down so the extra money from work is for food. blah!