Contrary to popular opinion, milk is not good for cats. Most cats are lactose intolerant. They have what is called KMR (kitty milk replacement), but milk is not necessarily going to help her poop; she needs water for that. However, I would get her on some wet food so she does not become dehydrated. Wet food is cheap, and it's 70% water so it will give her some calories while also hydrating her enough to poop.
I hope she makes it.
My cats are my family . . .
I know milk isn't good for cats, but for so long, A long time ago, I read that they can get diarrhea from the milk. No problem. Hubby bought fat free milk instead of whole milk and she definitely didn't like it! She wouldn't drink just water. We tried chicken broth, too, without results.
Yesterday, i had taken her into the back room where her litter box is, put her down by it, but all she did was walk in circles. So, I left the room and she followed. For the rest of the day, she stayed in the living room/kitchen area. I thought maybe she had an eye problem because she looked at our shoes and followed them as we walked around. It bothered me but....
Today, she is eating well. First it was a tablespoon, then 2, and now she's eating everything we give her. We're giving her canned fish and I mixed a little chicken broth with dry cat food. She is starting to feel better. She's walking a lot more and she's back to talking to us. I brought the large carrier in the house and made it up with a small litter box and her bed and last night, she automatically went in it when hubby told her to! This morning, she ate really good and followed me to the back room but still didn't use the litter box there. She's now taking her morning nap. She still didn't poop but like hubby said, she had no food in her stomach for 4 days so it may take a day or two for "stuff" to get moving again.
Whatever it was, I think she survived and is over it. I can't feel every bone in her body like I could a couple days ago when she first got sick. She is the first cat we've had since my Patches II died 17 years ago (she was 16), so I am a little rusty in their care.
Thank you, everyone for suggestions and caring. it meant a lot.