Lets talk about men :)

[ccota64]

Good men are out there...sometimes they are just hard to find. I was married for 21 yrs to the worlds biggest jerk but we split up and I met the most wonderful, loving, fun, exciting man on the planet and we are planning to marry within the next year. So yes, the world has some good men in it....be patient and you will find one! (but ladies, Im sorry to say..I found THE BEST one! lol)

[dmalsbury]

Good for you! I'm happy for you. I'm glad you found one of the good ones.
dmalsbury

[cynybiny68]

Good question.  I do know that when you stop looking and focus on your own life with your family and friends he will end up where you least expect it.

[angietx]

(but ladies, Im sorry to say..I found THE BEST one! lol)

Oh, now now there, I have the BEST one!  LOL

[ancmetro]

  I agree with you: Go for the best ones...do not waste your time with bad ones!

[AXELUnholy]

I am a man, as well, and figured I might weigh in on this, too. Honestly, every girl I've ever dated(except for one) has mistreated me in some way, cheated on me, or dumped me for a guy who treats them like crap. No matter what I did for them, or how well I treated them,they always slept around behind my back, or said, "I'm sorry, but there's someone I care for more than you", and said guy always ended up treating them like complete and utter trash, and they would never break up with the guy, no matter what he did to them. I don't get it. Why do women tend to gravitate towards guys who mistreat them? At least, it seems like they do, anyway.

[sanmikmor]

I know everyone probably thinks they have the best guy - but I know that I do! We knew each other only 3 months the day we got married. His best friend married my best friend and introduced us a week later. The odd part is that they were split up by the time we got married! Ten years after that we had a beautiful daughter that is truly our joy and pride. She graduated Magna *bleep* Laud last year, got married last October and is working on her Masters degree. Back to my guy - everyone likes my hubby.  He is always there to help anyone and everyone. Took care of his mother driving 30 miles a day nearly everyday for her last couple of years. He helped my Dad all the time and helped my Mom with him before he passed away last year. Now he helps me take care of running errands for my Mom since she cannot get around like she used to. Due to a couple of mishaps (car wreck and ripped Achilles tendon) I have been on crutches for 3 years - he does all the grocery shopping along with working full time, yard work etc. We will be married 38 years on our next anniversary. He is a great husband, father, son-in-law, friend and I consider him a gift from God!

[jkpetite]

trust me, they're out there....i'm blessed enough to be married to one....women just have to remember that if you say you want a good man, when he comes along, don't do everything in your power to run him off....i see that happen all too often....if you're used to losing, you don't know what it's like to win.....

[kelann1027]

my ex..cheated on me..now shes prego..i just had his son 9 days ago and he left us 6 weeks ago..SHES ALREADY PREGO!!!

[babypolotb]

MY HUSBAND IS THE BEST! HE SUPPORTS ME IN EVERYTHING I WANT TO DO.  HE WORKS HARD AND DONT COMPLAIN WHEN HE COMES HOME.  HE COMES HOME AND STILL CLEAN AND WORK SOME MORE.  HE IS THE BEST! HE ACTUALLY SIT BACK AND LISTEN TO ME COMPLAIN ABOUT MY DAY

[MMonk]

My husband is TOTALLY awesome to me!!! There are good men out there...you just have to find the right one! Now don't believe that "a man can't change" my hubs wasn't the greatest guy - BUT since we've been together he has gotten SOOOO much better! We have been married for almost 6 years now and totally happy!

[AmyTrivitt]

I am a man, as well, and figured I might weigh in on this, too. Honestly, every girl I've ever dated(except for one) has mistreated me in some way, cheated on me, or dumped me for a guy who treats them like crap. No matter what I did for them, or how well I treated them,they always slept around behind my back, or said, "I'm sorry, but there's someone I care for more than you", and said guy always ended up treating them like complete and utter trash, and they would never break up with the guy, no matter what he did to them. I don't get it. Why do women tend to gravitate towards guys who mistreat them? At least, it seems like they do, anyway.

 I'm sorry!! My brother is just like you. He tends to find girls that always treat him wrong. But hes problem was he would pick girls up at the gas station, at bars or through friends girlfriends, friends. I dont know where you are looking but I promise give it time and you will find someone!!

[discardedheart]

Haha, I know how you feel... Hopefully some day we'll find a good one!

pffffsh.
you and me both, sister ;p

[salsaverde99]

men can be as complicated as much as women are, yet, there is amazing ones out there. JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE DID U WRONG does not mean they are all the same. I believe that everyone has their special someone out there waiting for them but you must be patient, and once you find them, make it work. COMMUNICATION IS THEY KEY. however dont let any men disrespect you and treat you like dogs. so for those who don't believe that there is still good guys out there ..remember! theres alot of fish in the ocean 

[jongarton]

gotta chime in on this one too! I am a guy and I try my best to be there for my fiance' and our daughter! I try too keep both of them happy!!! sometimes I feel bad because I haven't been able to always provide for things that they want but I also try to pick between what they want and what they need!!!