Lets talk about men :)

[angelz4u39]

Im just curious on how many woman actually have a good man cause Im starting to think that there is not many good ones out there anymore. Its like they have all gone bad, like fruit LOL

[MyLastDisguise]

Haha, I know how you feel... Hopefully some day we'll find a good one!

[lubieann]

I hope there are some more good ones left.........although I never get out to meet anyone anyway...lol

[mommagoes]

i know what you mean! i spent the first 6 years of my "dating" period going from one "rotten" man to another. it seemed they all had one (or sometimes more) of the following issues: liars, cheaters, abusers (including physical, mental, emotional, and substance), too much drama (usually from their previos relationships), immaturity, or we were at different stages of our lives. then, 5 years ago, i gave up. i threw my hands up in the air and said i was done trying to find mr. right, or any other mr. for that matter. i had a few quiet weeks of spending time with family and other single girl friends. then one night, went to a bar with my girls, and this very attractive man asked me for a light. i'm not a smoker so what were the chances that i just happened to have ended up with my friend's lighter in my pocket. so i gave him a light and we then struck up a conversation that led us outside, where we sat and talked for 3 hours. we exchanged phone numbers, started hanging out, going to movies, to the beach, out to eat, just real casual. and then, before either of us realized what was happening, we fell in love. we dated for 4 years and have now been married for one year! and he is a great guy! very nice, laid back, funny, charming, intelligent, and an excellent provider for our family. i guess the point of all this is that there are still a few good guys out there. you just have to be patient, be open minded, and don't settle for anything less than what you deserve!

[TWG1992]

I'm a man, and I thought i'd weigh in on this. I treat my girlfriend like a princess. I always am there for her, and if I feel like I hurt her in anyway, I'm always there to comfort her or apologize to her constantly because I honestly feel bad. I love her with all of my heart.

I know i'm probably one of the few nice guys out there, but i'm quite proud of it.

[mrisha]

Still waiting to meet a good man who treats me like a queen.  It seems like I always meet the ones who wants to use me and thinks I should be grateful to them

[jkc715nyc]

I recently lost my job and my husband couldn't be more supportive. He actually apologized for not making enough money so I could just stay home from now on. I feel really lucky.

[mommagoes]

I'm a man, and I thought i'd weigh in on this. I treat my girlfriend like a princess. I always am there for her, and if I feel like I hurt her in anyway, I'm always there to comfort her or apologize to her constantly because I honestly feel bad. I love her with all of my heart.

I know i'm probably one of the few nice guys out there, but i'm quite proud of it.

its very nice to hear that you are a nice guy and your girlfriend is very lucky to have you. now if only your good qualities could just be replicated and spread onto the rest of the men out there... 

[AmyTrivitt]

Your true a GOOD man is really hard to find!!! I dated alot of LOSERS before meeting my husband and damn did I get lucky!!
Don't give up there are good men out there, its like a needle in a haystack!!!

[JessieKateRose]

I have an amazing one. He had a crush on me for a few years, but we never talked. Then we started talking online when one of his friends (no longer his friend..) started stalking and harassing me. He told the guy to leave me alone and when he tried to say bad things about me he called him a name I'd rather not repeat here. At the time, I had a boyfriend whom I'd been dating for around a year but he didn't defend me at all, and still acted friendly with the guy who was harassing me. After a couple of months, my then-boyfriend dumped me, and my now-boyfriend cheered me up as much as he could. After about a month we started hanging out, and after two I asked him out.

He always wants to spend time with me, we've been hanging out every single day for months. He loves animals and little kids. He always wants to spend all of his money on me even though I tell him he doesn't have to and often that I don't want him to spend too much on me. He always tries so hard to please me, always. We still haven't ever gotten into a fight, because we don't want to argue with each other. We calm down and talk about what's going on instead of arguing when we're upset. He accepts me for who I am. I choose to wear clothing that most people make fun of me for, but he tells me I look cute in it and isn't embarrassed to be seen in public with me. He holds my hands and we laugh at the funny reactions people have together.

[dmecham56]

I have a great man. We have been married nearly 30 years and have raised 5 children together. He has always treated me like a princess. He has listened to me and comforted me when I have needed him. He has always let me make up my own mind and supported me in whatever I wanted to do. My husband is a prince among men.

[angietx]

I sometimes wonder how I got so lucky.  My husband of 24 years is...... well theres just too much good stuff  about him its hard to
narrow it down to a few words.  He is the best.  He will go out of his way to help others too.  He is my forever love, my friend, my comforter
and so much more.  There is so much he has done for me.  I just cant say enough about how great he is.  So, yes there are good men out
there. 

[spyder2k5]

I consider myself one of those good men. I met my fiancee online in the MMORPG World of Warcraft. We have been together for over 2 years. It has not always been smooth, I would say we had more rough times then not. But we work through the times and look forward to the future. We do not argue or have very many minor fights, and those we do are over fast. I love her with all my heart and would do anything for her.

[dreamyxo]

I consider myself lucky.  For the most part my relationships have been with pretty good guys.  Sure no one is perfect.  As Dr Phil says "you teach people how to treat you" is all I'm going to say.

[guanaquito79]

is all about comunication in a relationship we all make mistakes we all humans but we all can change some how