Men? Does anyone understand them?

[xgiakgyrl2106x]

Ok now the deal here is that men almost always say one thing and do another. Why must they do this? Why do they always insist that what they are truly feeling is wrong and choose to go the opposite way of them?

[dreamyxo]

This does not sound like a man, it sounds like a little boy. 

[MuaHahaEVIL]

I understand men perfectly... but understanding them and doing what they want are completely different things, of course

All they wanna do is sleep, eat (and they expect to be served on hand and foot), watch Television, work (rarely), sleep more, and .... yeah the last thing is -cough- yeah -cough-

=_=

Don't give in!!!!!!

[mara7]

I don't think they know what they are doing...

[rcbrad]

Ok now the deal here is that men almost always say one thing and do another. Why must they do this? Why do they always insist that what they are truly feeling is wrong and choose to go the opposite way of them?

I am not sure what you are trying to say in the second sentence?

[rcbrad]

Because they are playing a game, they don't care, they know how to get what they want and what to say, they do what they want

In my opinion, your statement applies to women and men, however I find that women are more likely to play games when compared to men.

[AmyTrivitt]

Not all MEN are like what you described.
And I agree some women do this too.
Mostly its because they are juvenile individuals!

[cloudsoup]

I don't think they know what they are doing...

hahah    neither do i.

[babypolotb]

  with men, i think we just have to communicate more often with them.  theres times when i have to repeat myself so many times to my husband for him to get it. 

[ancmetro]

  Most men are difficult to understand because many of them are the victims of domestic violence, not perpetrated by women but by other men who torment them. That is the reason many of them do not know what they are doing because they do not have any other choices. If they try to do something different, they are attacked by their own kind. Let us look at wars, they kill and are killed by their own kind. Sad but true. Is there anything we could do to help them?

[dream420believer]

Im going thru a break up right now and dont understand what is going through his head at all. Im just going to have to sit back and let whats going to happen happen. I dont like it. I wish i could understand him. I would like to know how the can turn on and off love with a blink of an eye

[mgreen3]

The first thing to understand is that men are completely different than women. Women like to communicate while men tend to keep their thoughts to themselves. Women like to express themselves through emotion while men try not to show emotion (makes them look like a wuss). Men and women have different concepts and different ways to deal with situations.

If you want to understand men then you have to have an open mind, try to communicate with them and yes.......even compromise. My husband and I still have the occasional disagreements but we take the time to listen to each others point of view and them we find a solution (compromise) that works for both of us. My husband is currently unemployed. While I am at work my husband keeps up the laundry and cleans the house for me.  I still come home and cook dinner.....my husband does not know how to cook.....but he does the dishes.

I guess I am one of the lucky ones:-)

[tsubasa731]

which is why i find gay guys to be great friends, they're quite sensitive~

[jenniferbottorff]

My husband is 22 and I am 32, and I was his first real romance. It's like training a puppy but i can't whack him on the nose.     But man I love him!!   

[oldbuddy]

So quit trying to understand us and get back to the laundry