Being Mistreated

[180MovieDotCom]

So typically, in the past when someone "mistreats" me I try to remind myself that - because God is sovereign - whoever mistreated me did so in His sovereignty.  God has a purpose for everything.  For me to be hurt over something someone did or said to me is to be displeased with God's sovereignty in my life.

I can't do that because I know for a fact that God is good and perfect, and all things come together for the greater good for those who love Him and are called according to His purposes.

But today - I feel like God definitely convicted me.  Yes, God is sovereign.  But I don't think that's what I should be focusing on when I'm being "mistreated".

I think what really needs to happen is I need to repent.  What kind of pride is in me that makes me believe I "deserve" to be treated a certain way?  If I deserve eternal damnation, which I have been spared from in Christ by grace - why would I be displeased with whatever this life - and my God - has for me?

Pride is such an ugly thing..

[catherinedwhite]

Forgiveness is the hardest thing for me to achieve. When someone has done me wrong (in my eyes), total forgiveness is my goal as that is what God wants. Some things are so horrible I am struggling with total forgiveness. I keep praying for guidance and help in this matter.

[aggie49]

i do not let any one mis- treat me a person that does that is not worth your time sweetie

[surveygrabber]

I've been mistreated many times as a kid. Just don't let anyone do this to you. Your best bet is to avoid them then fighting with them.