Divorced!

[froggylover227]

Well, it's official....I'm finally divorced! Some people say the day they got married was the best day of their life...well the best day of my life was the day I got divorced! I'm so glad the nightmare is over, and I can finally move forward with my life.

[oldbuddy]

Been there, done that and now I have been remarried for 44 years and counting.

[countrygirl12]

You are finally divorced?  Seriously?  You have been talking on another thread about moving in with your boyfriend.  So you had a boyfriend while you were still married?  And actually had the gall to say that God was telling you to move in with him?  NO!  Having a boyfriend while having a husband is totally against what God wants.

lol.  I know that is not what you want to hear.

[melissajh44]

I wish you nothing but the best. You must feel renewed!

[mrrangerrick]

Congratulations. It's better to move forward and be happy than to be weighed down by someone who doesn't have your best interest at heart.

[sak4kat]

Live and learn - although I would have to agree with the boyfriend while still married comment.  I'm not saint and through living and learning I can testify that living with a man before marriage is not Godly....Trump that while still being married. Oh but if I put some of my mistakes out there I'm sure many would have plenty to say bout' my choices as well. 

[gaylasue]

Best wishes for your new life adventures!  May your tomorrows bring you happiness!

[debidoo]

Well best of luck to you.  I was married for 34 years until my husband passed away.  We had a lot of trauma and drama during those years but I still miss him and love him.  I hope you find much happiness in your life now and can start anew.

[snuggleycutejc]

Good luck with the next page. Hope you stay happy.

[squirrelgirl44]

My "divorce-aversary" is November 21 (2008). It was a very happy day for me as well. It was the best decision for everyone.

Enjoy!

[ghunter]

NO! No! no divorced!!

[alice44]

May your future be brighter than your past.  Congratulations

[Penwoir]

I support you! I also have been divorced and was so unhappy in my previous marriage that on the day my divorce came through, I was the happiest I've ever been. I also had found a boyfriend way before my divorce came through and, I moved in with him as soon as I was able! There! I said it! Also, as I said in my previous response to your situation, I subsequently married the man I moved in with and we have since had two sons who are now 9 and 11. We have been married now for 12 years. For those people that say, how can you be married to someone whilst having a boyfriend, I say, I left my husband and was divorced in my mind the day I left home! It was another 18 months before my divorce came through and, as I had been unhappily married for 9 years, I felt it self-paralysing to continue living under a shadow. Those that have been in your situation, will totally understand. Congratulations to you, you came out the other side!

[slacomb]

Some people don't realize it but divorce can be a blessing.

[sherryfan]

Whatever is better, life goes on