what do you all think of sex before marrige ok? or no bueno

[MyLastDisguise]

Not many people seem to agree any more, but I think it is best to wait until after marriage. I want to be able to give as much as I can to that one guy and only him rather than regretting what I already gave away to others.

[jasoneaton]

Be safe, have fun, be aware of the risks. Relationships and children are the most damaging and lingering sexually contracted disease.

[jaymz462]

Try it before you buy it 

[5patti5]

People should always wait until marriage.. Sex before marriage only will create problems.. Sometimes they will never get married because why get married if your already getting the goods. Sexual transmitted diseases,  pain caused after breakups,  unplanned pregnancies.. Also.. were not dogs.. were human beings.. If you just sleep with everybody then your no better than the dogs down the road.. ABSENCE is best.

[pshah1991]

It really depends on the couple, but I feel like you should definetly be over 18, and at lesat date with the intnt to get married.

I'm personally waiting untill I'm engaged.

[vlsm23]

fine, sex can ruin a marriage, so might as well make sure you enjoy having sex with the person you marry.  Personally the first guy I was with was horrible in comparison to my husband - I would have been sexually deprived if I stayed with the first guy just because he was the first one I fell in love with and thought I was going to marry.

[mgarmstrong]

It's and individual choice.  Some look at is from the religion standpoint but I'll be accountable for my own sins, and you can worry about yours.

[nesandry]

sex is normal. and natural and it is just an urge we all have. i think its perfectly fine. lol as long as its not taken too far i suppose haha.

[Sunshine84]

I think it is okay to have sex before marriage. It is the new age it is nobody elses business what you do before you are married. People have needs it is not the 50's like the tv shows. I think before you married you should probably be careful so you don't end up pregnant but I think it is okay to satisfy your needs.

[aimeerose00]

People should always wait until marriage.. ABSENCE is best.

LOL

[mjerevie]

i think that engaging in sex with another individual is a personal choice to make. it depends on how you see sex, what do you think it is really for, and why you want to do it. personally though, i waited before marriage. this is who i am and i made that decision for myself. Just remember that whatever you choose to do, whether you decide to abstain or to engage, a consequence will follow and you would have to deal with that afterwards.

[prettynink87x]

I'm not for sleeping around but it's okay if you love the other person

[reneezysk]

I wish I had waited til I was married.  I've had many more partners than my husband and it makes me very sad

[AXELUnholy]

I don't care either way, personally. I just hate when people put ALL the emphasis on sex. Sex isn't all there is to a relationship.

[valerieandsteven]

i think i wouldve waited everything... it wasny what i expected when i lost my virginity however w my hubby its different