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AXELUnholy

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #60 on: August 27, 2009, 02:46:47 pm »
I'm not for or against it. While I find the thought of two men having sexual intercourse, etc., slightly disturbing, I feel like it's their choice. As long as I don't have to be witness to any of it, I'm fine with it. Just like I don't put my business as a straight man out there for everyone to witness. You know? I keep the sexuality behind closed doors, and as long as they keep it that way, too, I have no problem with it.


Can they show affection for each other in public (mind you, the amount of affection that is acceptable for heterosexual couples to show in public)?

Yeah, but everything else has to stay private.

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« Reply #61 on: August 27, 2009, 05:23:50 pm »
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Yeah, but everything else has to stay private.

I'm sure some people may badmouth you saying there's a double standard going on with what you think (heteros brag about their sexuality all the time), but I think I know where you're coming from. I think maybe there's a certain naivety in people that havent seen men/women kiss their own sex before so it's very awkward for them to take in. I believe it's perfectly normal for heteros to see it that way-- for instance an extreme example would be if a group of people are flaunting their sex lives, and then one couple suddenly brings up how they're sadomasochist-masters that are all into these rare fetishes..I'm sure most would be all "wtf?" even though no harm is being done to that couple. It's just because most havent been exposed enough to new/rare things like that.

Maybe through time the naivety will settle? Who knows.
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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #62 on: August 27, 2009, 08:34:39 pm »
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Yeah, but everything else has to stay private.

I'm sure some people may badmouth you saying there's a double standard going on with what you think (heteros brag about their sexuality all the time), but I think I know where you're coming from. I think maybe there's a certain naivety in people that havent seen men/women kiss their own sex before so it's very awkward for them to take in. I believe it's perfectly normal for heteros to see it that way-- for instance an extreme example would be if a group of people are flaunting their sex lives, and then one couple suddenly brings up how they're sadomasochist-masters that are all into these rare fetishes..I'm sure most would be all "wtf?" even though no harm is being done to that couple. It's just because most havent been exposed enough to new/rare things like that.

Maybe through time the naivety will settle? Who knows.

I'm not talking about them kissing and holding hands and such in public. I'm fine with that. I'm talking about the other, more "naughty" things.

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #63 on: August 27, 2009, 09:22:21 pm »
Oh I know I was referring to everything!

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« Reply #64 on: August 28, 2009, 12:39:48 am »
 :wave: :wave: :wave: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
                  As long as they don't bother me,, gay people can do whatever they want!!!!

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #65 on: August 28, 2009, 12:59:48 pm »
This is another topic that has been rehashed entirely too much. I am a heterosexual, but have no problem with gay people. In fact one of my best friends is a gay man. He is the BEST shopper in the world. I think that the world should stop making such a big deal out of gay/lesbain relationships. This is nearling the end of 2009. Times have changed. If they want to get married legally, let them. Why should their sexual preference hinder them from the liberties that heterosexuals have? If they wish to be married, pay higer taxes, and deal with the nagging let them. I really do not think it is our business to tell them otherwise.

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« Reply #66 on: August 28, 2009, 01:10:25 pm »
Yeah this topic has been beaten to death. I'll keep my eyes out for a "Pro or Anti Abortion?" thread.

Long story short, let people do whatever the hell they want, as long as it doesn't infringe on anyone elses rights.

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #67 on: October 31, 2009, 09:46:32 am »
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Citation please.

I actually researched this a long time ago (read a big chunk of the old testmament) and remember it being a mixture of several passages, but it does not blantantly say "divorce = death" like how most of the laws are written in Numbers. This had more to do with adultery than divorce (my bad) but if the man was caught, he should be divorced from his wife and then put to death. Looking it up online I found these-- Deuteronomy 22:22, Leviticus 20:10, Proverbs 6:32
None of these verses support your claim that God condones divorce because it is ok.

And Proverbs is really a strawman. The book you've quoted is poetry. Poetry is just that. Poetry. It is not meant as a historic, narrative account.

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So what?
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Why should they listen to a suggestion from someone who doesn't care what they believe?

Because if a belief is withholding progress on a certain people, it causes major problems. Especially when those beliefs are old and outdated and most people disregard the whole lot of them and just use the convenient ones causing prejudices among good people.
The Bible's mention of homosexuality has nothing to do with the oppression or repression of gays, or the fact that the context of the Christian Church's relationship with homosexuality is different than relationships with liars, adulterers, greedy persons, or thieves because the Bible talks about these people in the same breath it talks about homosexuality; therefore we should look at the person who doesn't tithe in the exact same way as we look at gays. A "little fib" should be treated no differently from a gay kiss. Why is a lesbian eyed with condemnation but the drunk who beats his wife and children gets to take his place as a Sunday school teacher? Why is there support for a ban on gay marriage but divorce is lawful? Why is there moral outrage at a rainbow on somebody's car but nobody cares that less than 10% of Christians tithe? The answer is that Christian morality is just self-righteous moralism, that our indignation is actually self-serving because we're trying to make ourselves feel better. We don't believe in grace and hope and peace because we don't really believe in Jesus, and that's why our judgment on the other is always smug and never righteous. I think Yglesias explains a lot about the appeal of anti-gay crusades to social conservative leaders. Most of what “traditional values” asks of people is pretty hard. All the infidelity and divorce and premarital sex and bad parenting and whatnot take place because people actually want to do the things traditional values is telling them not to do. And the same goes for most of the rest of the Christian recipe. Acting in a charitable and forgiving manner all the time is hard. Loving your enemies is hard. Turning the other cheek is hard. Homosexuality is totally different. For a small minority of the population, of course, the injunction “don’t have sex with other men!” (or, as the case may be, other women) is painfully difficult to live up to. But for the vast majority of people this is really, really easy to do. Campaigns against gay rights, gay people, and gay sex thus have a lot of the structural elements of other forms of crusading against sexual excess or immorality, but they’re not really asking most people to do anything other than become self-righteous about their pre-existing preferences.

Homosexual discrimination is an issue in the American/Western culture war, not an issue that the Bible is interested in, although the WBC seems to believe otherwise. The fact that you don't see constitutional amendments popping up about Christians who divorce, don't tithe or televangelists demonstrates that the American right's stigma against homosexuals is not based in Paul's admonitions. They revile the other as a "*bleep*" and are just trying to maintain hold on their turf. That make him the scapegoat for their perpetuation of and participation in evil, for their lack of control and failure of virtue. That has nothing to do with what Paul (or the Levitical holiness code) was getting at.

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #68 on: October 31, 2009, 11:19:44 am »
Ohohoh! i don't believe in God. Frankly, I believe any higher being is just a crutch in life and, frankly, stupidity. Did I also mention I'm gay?

Guess i'm going to hell, along with a few thousand dogs I've seen...

just curious, but if you don't believe in god, then how are you going to hell?  Isn't that kinda tied in with the whole god thing?  I peosonally am on the fence on the whole gay marriage thing.  I couldn't marry another woman, but if two people love each other than they should just get married and have all the benefits that straight people do.

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #69 on: October 31, 2009, 12:33:51 pm »
Ohohoh! i don't believe in God. Frankly, I believe any higher being is just a crutch in life and, frankly, stupidity. Did I also mention I'm gay?

Guess i'm going to hell, along with a few thousand dogs I've seen...

just curious, but if you don't believe in god, then how are you going to hell?  Isn't that kinda tied in with the whole god thing?

I imagine it was satire.

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #70 on: February 07, 2010, 03:48:19 pm »
I agree with Stealth3si and was very glad to see his first post on this subject.  

"Gay marriage" is another false dilemma offerred by politicians and pollsters.  

No one should be allowed to get married.  

There, I said it.  Marriage should be a spiritual and/or personal bond created outside of the legal sector.  If you can find a church/temple/voodoo priestess who will marry you to your girlfriend/boyfriend/cow, you go for it.  The government should not be involved!

The protests to this typically come from married people who enjoy the "perks" offered to married couples.  However, this is simply a way for the government to incentivize the morals it believes in.  

This is when people start saying "But those morals are "GOOD"!  Children raised in two-parent, heterosexual families "turn out better"!"  I will not argue this.  The truth of such statements in irrelevant.  Just because the government promotes "good" morals doesn't mean they get a free pass!  IT IS NOT THE JOB OF THE GOVERNMENT TO DICTATE OUR MORALS.

The next thing you hear is "But this country was founded on Christian values!"  Yes, it was.  It was founded by Christian men with Christian values that were typical of their day.  They genuinely hoped their descendents would continue on the same path.  BUT THEY DID NOT INTEND TO IMPRESS THESE MORALS UPON US WITH LEGISLATION.  I'm sure they sincerely hoped that the United States would continue to be a Christian nation.  But if they had intended for that to happen via the government, they would have written it into the Constitution.

"But what about "X" legal issue?"

What about it?  If you want your spouse to be the benefactor of your life insurance, write their name on the line.  If you want them to have the ability to determine your healthcare protocol should you be unable, give them your power of attorney.  If you want them to have custody of your children should you perish, make arrangements with your lawyer.  All of the avenues for legally securing rights typically thought to belong to a spouse aare already available within our existing legal framework.  And if they're not, let's work on that, instead of making marriage legal for everyone.
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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #71 on: February 07, 2010, 04:12:20 pm »
Marriage is not just a personal contract it is a SERIOUS commitment under God and this is the way it should be treated. Homosexual marriage is an abomination and no one has the right to marry but God who joins two together and a man of God a pastor who has the right under God to marry people a true MAN of God pastor. Homosexuality is an ABOMINATION and a PERVERSION and should not be tolerated, accepted, or recognized. God made the institution of marriage and God has the right to sustain a marriage. A marriage that is built upon God's word will never fail but contracts between men and man founded relationships are bound for failure. Man made economy or anything that is founded upon man will FAIL! God and his word will stand for ever as is promised in his word! The people are as grass and the surely the grass withereth the grass withereth and the flower fadeth but the word of God shall stand forever Isaiah 40:8. God and his word shall stand for ever and he instituted one man and one women becoming one flesh forever. When you are intimate you are bonding your body with others and this is something sacred which is meant only for one man and one women commited together in love forever and anything else is perversion. Bestiality is an abomination!

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #72 on: February 07, 2010, 04:26:03 pm »
I don't think its really anyones right to tell people that they can not get married just because they have a different sexual preference than most people! We are not living in the 1930's anymore people. I thought this was a free country! People have rights no matter who they are. Telling them they cannot get married is wrong!

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« Reply #73 on: February 07, 2010, 04:45:33 pm »
Natalie, I agree with you on this. This is not anyone'r rights or opinion...we need to learn how to respect others to earn the respect you desire. If the same gender marriage is occuring in your neighborhood or social circle, say nice things or say nothing at all. I think it is important to be this way because we are not here to judge. Once we feel that we have the right to judge, we don't use this "power" the right way. Besides, we open up doors for others to judge us with this kind of mentality.

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Re: Opinions on gay rights/marriage?
« Reply #74 on: February 17, 2010, 09:03:01 am »
I believe everyone has a right to be happy.  I have friends and family who are gay and I support them 100%.  I absolutely support gay marriage!

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