being single

[ladycasshmere]

So my boyfriend that I have been with eight years with one break up. Him and I have been arguing. He decides to announce to the world via social media that he is single and made it clear he isn't seeing anyone but still wants to play house with me. Would I be wrong if I started seeing someone else. He keeps telling me let's work it out and then the next minute he is like this isn't working you can leave.

[lray3152]

Ladycasshmere - if he is not making you happy - leave him.  Do what you need to do to make YOU happy that puts you in the best situation possible.  Know that you deserve better.

[camellia0]

You need to cut all ties with this guy. If he goes on social media and says he's single, in his heart that's what he wants. don't  limit yourself. Get a good guy that likes everything about you and appreciates you.

[plennis]

LEAVE.  You don't need this bozo to jerk you around like that. Like everyone has said, you need to love yourself enough so that you KNOW you deserve better than that.  8 years is already to much time to have wasted on him.   /color]

[moon29]

leave he thinks the grass is better on the other side but still wants to be able to play in your grass whenever he feels like.  time to dump his butt and stop wasting your time. hes showing you his true colors.

[ladavia89]

Generally if someone says they're done with you just once they really mean it and that will still be true regardless of what they say later. Why would you want to stay with someone who publicly states that he's done with you? He wants the luxury of having something stable with you but the fun of being with new people. Let it go and move on.

[BlackSheepNY]

So my boyfriend that I have been with eight years with one break up. Him and I have been arguing. He decides to announce to the world via social media that he is single and made it clear he isn't seeing anyone but still wants to play house with me. Would I be wrong if I started seeing someone else. He keeps telling me let's work it out and then the next minute he is like this isn't working you can leave.

I guess it would depend on how you feel.  Is it over for you?  I sure the heck wouldn't want to be living with him if he was seeing someone else.  Sounds like he's playing Ping Pong with you.  Sit him down and ask him which way he wants to go because he can't have it both ways.  If it is over for you, then by all means, go out and have fun for a change.  He'd drive me nuts!

[tuyetmai]

Look like he want to play around with you.  Just leave and find someone else, he don't deserve you.

[mrrangerrick]

I agree with what others have said, if he doesn't make you happy, then leave him and follow your heart.

[rogery]

Sounds like quite a nice guy. Why would you want to work it out? Move on.

[maxinmotion]

Don't put yourself through any unnecessary heart ache. People often start arguments to cover guilt. Decide to stay or go but don't wait until something bad happen.

[tantricia44]

seriously, if u can't get a straight answer on why he wants to have his cake and eat too, then u should tell him too leave! I can bet a billion bucks he's seeing someone else now & waying his options!No self respecting girl will go with a jerk that want's to hide your relationship to the world! I'd rather be alone the rest of my life than have my dignity,self respect be abused and trampled upon by some *bleep* jerk who want's to be a little boy again!Save your soul and just move on!

[dreamyxo]

Make a clean break once and for all.

[ernica96]

Sounds bipolar. Sounds like you're the backup option if he's publicly saying he's single. It's time to leave.

[demaina]

If you aren't happy, get out.  That's the best thing for you.  I have so many friends that stayed with horrible guys because they didn't want to be alone but in all honesty they would've been better off alone since then they would've had to put up with all the stress on top of everything else.