Trust

[sherryinutah]

I have my own personal policy where I'm determined to create a win/win when I interact with others because I want people and animals to trust me.  Also, if I date someone who proves to me that they are trustworthy...that's a big plus...as far as a potential relationship is concerned.

Trust exists after you have the opportunity to experience the way other people operate. 

There's a happy chemical in our limbic system called Oxytocin that is triggered when we allow someone to touch and/or hug us for at least 20 seconds.  It's all about social trust and bonding with others. 

The bottom line is that, we are able to trust when someone proves that they care about us enough, that they wouldn't hurt us financially, physically, mentally or emotionally.

I have a tendency to trust until I find out someone isn't completely trustworthy.  Then, I refuse to interact with them.  I'm selective about who I want in my life.

Oh...and...btw...I complete certain offers on FusionCash because the FC admin. has been trustworthy about doing what they say they'll do.

Do you easily trust others?  In what ways do you trust?     

[natashaspy]

i have a lot of trouble trusting anyone.  i've been stabbed in the back by people who claimed to be my closest dearest friends and family so often it really is difficult to believe anything anyone tells me anymore unless i have positive proof in front of me

[singletonb]

I too have a tendency to trust others until they prove that they are not trustworthy. 

[aggie49]

i learned a long ti ago to be curious before trusting anyone i have been burnt to many times in all asspects of my life

[melissajh44]

I'm the opposite of a lot of people. I tend to trust people's intentions too easily and I'm not good at spotting liars. I'd like to think most people have good hearts but we all know...

[countrygirl12]

I don't trust anyone.  Most people will lie to you to get what they want or to further their own cause.  I guess I have just been screwed over and lied to too many times.

[crisstar]

My policy is this...

I trust no one 100% completely. With that said, it's hard to go through life not trusting anyone ever so I give people as much trust as I think they can be trusted with. How's that? 

[BlackSheepNY]

I do not trust people right off the bat.  I am cordial and friendly and will give you the benefit of the doubt but, trust is something that is built up over time.  The more and longer I get to know someone, the more I will know about them and they me.  Prove to me that I CAN trust you and trust will come, in time.

[Tresbn00]

I trust, and have love, for just about everyone that I come in contact with until they exhibit behavior that makes them less than trustworthy. I am just as quick to dismiss someone if they betray my trust and it is nearly impossible to fall back into my good grace or ever be trusted by me again.  Life is to short to spend an abundance of time with someone that you don't trust.  There are so many good people out there. I think this is especially true in marriage.  If your significant other gives you any reason at all not to trust them you need to break it off. Without trust there is no relationship.

[mrisha]

I don't trust people.  I have found that people will lie about the smallest thing when it's not even necessary.  For some they've never met truth because it scares them.  They are more comfortable lying at all times.

[Penwoir]

Like you, I trust someone until they have proved untrustworthy. From a very early age my parents taught me and my sisters that trust is something you should not throw away easily. We were poor when I was young. I recall an occasion when my mum needed to borrow a little bit of change from me to pay the newspaper man. I remember she wrote herself a note to pay me back as soon as she had some cash and she kept her note on the fridge until she paid me off. She did this every single time she borrowed money and she never failed to pay every single penny back. From this I learnt that she was totally trustworthy. The only drawback with being a trusting person is that, once my trust is lost, it is impossible to get it back, and I mean, impossible.

[pmagalei]

I trust my wife wholeheartedly and loyal to her and she displays the same for me. I love my family but there are some who are not reliable and trusted. My wife and I are more reliable on a Being more Superior and Higher(GOD). We go to HIM in all the decision we have made throughout our marriage and our lives and we trust the answers He has given us  whether it's the answer we are seeking or not He answers in his own due time and at the right time. We trust the LORD 100%.

[msmoneybags48]

Trust is a paramount issue in a relationship.  If there is no trust, in my honest opinion, there is no relationship.  I have put my heart out there and trusted, only to get  my heart stomped on.  But you have to trust some people, although you will have great apprehension.