I don't have any pits, but I know people who do. It really depends on how you raise them. They can be good dogs and they can be child friendly, or if you raise them as attack dogs, that's what they will be. If you are afraid of getting a pit and she ants a big dog, Goldens, labs, and other big dogs are suppose to be easy, laid back dogs. I have a lab and a mixed breed (both 80 lbs) and they are the most gentle, easy going dogs. I would research big breeds for a good match to your family. Good luck in finding your ne addition!