need opinions for facebook problem

[gaylasue]

No, I don't think it is unreasonable for you to request it or for him to do it (voluntarily).  Unless they have children between them, I don't know why he even keeps in touch with her.

[countrygirl12]

My husband has his ex wife on his facebook page. She is constantly posting on his wall and sending messages through the facebook messages. A lot of the messages and posts are about things from when they were together remember this, oh and remember this time, etc. they haven't been together for over 25 years. He has been with me.  I feel she is doing this on purpose to try to draw him back to her as she just recently got divorced from her husband . I think this is very inappropriate behavior, and should have the right to request that he unfriend her. I had an ex boyfriend on my facebook that he wasn't comfortable with me having on my list. He asked me to unfriend the ex, and the ex and I weren't even in contact or following each other on our pages, but because he wasn't comfortable with it, I removed the ex from my friends.  Do you think this is an unreasonable request for me to make?

I would def think she wanted to get back with him.  I would not just request he not be friends with her but tell him that's how it is going to be.  I would also point out how he didn't want you to have an exboyfriend as a friend.  I went out with a guy a couple of times that was constantly talking to his exwife.  If she called he couldn't get to the phone fast enough.  I broke that relationship off real quick.  I will not take 2nd place and I won't be a consolation prize.  He also actually met with her twice a week to exchange the kids back and forth.  Too much drama for me.

[countrygirl12]

I think he should "unfriend" her!  Even if they had kids together; there is always the phone in an emergency!  How very thoughtless of him to have her listed as a friend in the first place!  Like msmoneybags48 stated:  an ex is an ex for a reason!   

If it has been 25 years then even if they have kids they are not children.  If they have adult children together then "they" don't need to communicate via facebook about the kids.

[bremer51]

Tell him how you feel and ask him to unfriend her.  If they need to contact each other because of children or whatever, a phone call will do.   Just because she is interested in communicating with him, doesn't mean that he cares.  If he unfriends her, problem solved.  If he doesn't, take his computer and run over it in the driveway.  Problem solved.