Do you think this is cheating?

[cashrose]

I was with X for a year and a half, but I broke up with him for Y. I had relations with Y, realized he was not my type, and broke up with Y. Then I went back to X, told him I had relations with Y and X took me back happily, saying that he would never bring up what I did with Y. It has been a month since he took me back, and he brings up what I did with Y every. single. day. He's made me apologize hundreds of times and even made me admit that what I did was cheating. I don't think it was cheating at all because I was not with X at the time. What do you think?

You said your x made you apologized hundred times, why should you do it. Now he knew your weaknesses. Sorry to say it but now he knew he is strong. Y did come back to him? Did he begging you to come back? If he did then you'll know how strong you are. If he bring up the past situation well then I think couple counseling will be the best... Hope you too work things up good between both of you...  

[aflyingmonkey]

So what is the outcome?  Are you staying with X or did you move on to Z.

Whatever the decision, I hope you live a happy life!   

[duckgoquack]

What you've explained it as is definitely not cheating, and I don't think it would be in most people's books.  It sounds like he is insecure about this though, so maybe instead of arguing over its label as cheating (which I think is wrong anyway), try to work it out some other way?

[short4love]

I think he realizes that you can move on with out him and that makes him insecure.

[therose86]

No if you were not together at the time then it's not cheating. Maybe he didn't take the "breakup" seriously. But him bringing it up every day is very vindictive. I wouldn't stay with him

[6265AT99]

I don't feel you were cheating because as you said you were not with X at the time.  But, I do feel that X will never let you live down the fact that you hooked up with Y and because of that, I would dump X for good but, of course, the choice is yours.  Good luck!!!