Stopped talking

[tinaryerson]

mothers and daughters should always talk....ALWAYS

[lucky382001]

Have you ever had your son or daughter to stop talking to you? well my daughter hasn't spoken to me in what seems like a year.....i'm getting to the point where I don't care anymore....am I wrong?...Thank you everyone. by the way my daughter is 35 with 3 kids of her own.

I personally would drive her crazy and talk to her anyway.

I have tried to email her, call her and she wont answer either...I apologized to her for something that SHE did NOT me but it all falls on deaf ears...

I am sorry for your misfortunes with your daughter. There probably is not any thing you can do about it right now except to keep the door open to her. Perhaps in the future she will come around.

[cateyes1]

Have you ever had your son or daughter to stop talking to you? well my daughter hasn't spoken to me in what seems like a year.....i'm getting to the point where I don't care anymore....am I wrong?...Thank you everyone. by the way my daughter is 35 with 3 kids of her own.

I personally would drive her crazy and talk to her anyway.

I have tried to email her, call her and she wont answer either...I apologized to her for something that SHE did NOT me but it all falls on deaf ears...

I am sorry for your misfortunes with your daughter. There probably is not any thing you can do about it right now except to keep the door open to her. Perhaps in the future she will come around.

I hope so hun thank you.

[Barbara4321]

Do what you can to have a relationship with your grandchildren. Maybe that will soften your daughter's heart.

[cateyes1]

Do what you can to have a relationship with your grandchildren. Maybe that will soften your daughter's heart.

Hi Barb, my Grandkids are 11 & 8, my 11 year old Grandson told me he heard what was going on and so he is staying loyal to his Mom which I don't blame them....I will leave the door open, I email her once and awhile only to tell her I love her so she knows i'm here for her no matter what!!...maybe some day!!

[Nancy5]

It sounds like you have done just about all you can do, the decision is now up to her.  I probably would make one last effort and send her a card.  Write something like you hope you can put things behind you and be like you were before, you love her and always will, and know you will always be there for her.  Then I guess it's up to her whether she wants to resume talking to you.  I pray she can see that no one should ignore their mom, and she as a mom should be able to see that.  What would she do if one of her children stopped talking to her?  Good luck and I'm hoping she comes around.

[maxinmotion]

If you feel like you've done your best in raising her then let her have her space. There come a time when were think we have to have a hand in our grown children's affairs. Know that you raised her right and that the choices she make now are all her own.

Love her as a mother should and be there for her if and when she reaches out to you. If you have something to say to your daughter, write her a nice letter reminding her of a few happy times that you two shared. Don't say anything upsetting. Just give her some really true love in letter form, you may be happily surprised sooner than you think.

[cateyes1]

It sounds like you have done just about all you can do, the decision is now up to her.  I probably would make one last effort and send her a card.  Write something like you hope you can put things behind you and be like you were before, you love her and always will, and know you will always be there for her.  Then I guess it's up to her whether she wants to resume talking to you.  I pray she can see that no one should ignore their mom, and she as a mom should be able to see that.  What would she do if one of her children stopped talking to her?  Good luck and I'm hoping she comes around.

I wonder the same thing sometimes. She just had my 3rd Grandchild by her 3 months ago and I haven't even met him yet ....I hope before i'm gone this will get resolved...thank you Nancy!!

[cateyes1]

If you feel like you've done your best in raising her then let her have her space. There come a time when were think we have to have a hand in our grown children's affairs. Know that you raised her right and that the choices she make now are all her own.

Love her as a mother should and be there for her if and when she reaches out to you. If you have something to say to your daughter, write her a nice letter reminding her of a few happy times that you two shared. Don't say anything upsetting. Just give her some really true love in letter form, you may be happily surprised sooner than you think.

Thank you maxinmotion, I tried that as well and still nothing .....maybe some day, she and I were ALWAYS so close!

[moonangel]

whoops my bad I guess I had a brain cloud when I posted my answer

[weased]

Have you ever had your son or daughter to stop talking to you? well my daughter hasn't spoken to me in what seems like a year.....i'm getting to the point where I don't care anymore....am I wrong?...Thank you everyone. by the way my daughter is 35 with 3 kids of her own.

I stopped talking to my father for about 2-3 years, but fortunantely he became one of my closest and most respected friends the last 15 years he lived

[cateyes1]

Have you ever had your son or daughter to stop talking to you? well my daughter hasn't spoken to me in what seems like a year.....i'm getting to the point where I don't care anymore....am I wrong?...Thank you everyone. by the way my daughter is 35 with 3 kids of her own.

I stopped talking to my father for about 2-3 years, but fortunantely he became one of my closest and most respected friends the last 15 years he lived

I'm glad it turned out good for you

[camellia0]

Maybe she has issues that she is dealing with and doesn't want to worry you. You may just want to call her or go to her house. But i've heard of people not talking to their parents because they are too busy.

[bud1]

Me  and  dad  go  through  this  ever  so often.  Sometimes  people  grow  tired of  each other but  when it is all said  and done you  are still family.  I  am  here to  say  that  my dad  is  best  buddy  in the world.  Even though  we  do not see  eye to eye 100% of the time but who does?

[cateyes1]

Maybe she has issues that she is dealing with and doesn't want to worry you. You may just want to call her or go to her house. But i've heard of people not talking to their parents because they are too busy.

We use to talk every day. She does have a 3 month old and an 11 & 8 year old, maybe that is it but I highly doubt it  ...thank you!!