complicated relationships

[kriss8209]

My god...why is it that some people feel they have to make your romantic relationship complicated in anyway possible even if things are going well...I've never had any problems with my boyfriend until recently,now everything that comes up in a discussion turns into a major issue...it's like he's looking for a reason to find something wrong with our relationship...danged if i do and danged if i dont...i can do bad by myself...!

[silke_spence]

if he's trying to make excuses, then let him him fall and don't you shed a tear, that's just cowardly. ask him point blank if he wants to leave, he'll have to man up. if he says 'if you want to' you shoot him down fast and say this is about you not me. what do you want, i'm here for you but don't give me any    good luck!