cheating women/men

[Bode1104]

so.....what do you do if you found out she/he cheated on you?? forgive and forget? pack your things and leave?get revenge? or snap?

[jkc715nyc]

I would probably go completely nuts and toss my husband out the door. I don't know that I'd be able to forgive.

[ecominvest]

Couple should not be cheated on each and other. If you can't leave with a person instead of cheating on him/her, just give up.

[viva05]

Couples should not cheat on each other if you are true with your mate don't cheat.

[MATUREONE]

I'd pobably snap, get even, then leave!!! LOL...I would't get even, but I would be MAD AS HELL!!! I think if you're with someone, that's who you should be with. Cheating is pointless, and it creates one lie after another. IF you're with someone, and you feel an attraction to someon else, and yo KNOW it can go further than just that attraction, BE HONEST wth your partner...you'll be surprised of the outcome. He/She may be cool with it, wanna join you, or anything....TRUST ME!

[CompKillaz]

so.....what do you do if you found out she/he cheated on you?? forgive and forget? pack your things and leave?get revenge? or snap?

i would probably kick her out the door and look for someone else that won't cheat on me. i've been there a couple times in my life with cheaters and i've always done the same thing everytime. my moto is... "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater!"

[kesto4]

They don't even deserve to be talked to if they cheated. Break-up immediately and maybe someday talk to again.

[trop8cana]

I would leave personally.If a man/woman doesn't know your worth then they are not really worth being with or stressing over.I believe in Karma.What he/she does to you will be done to them.Just let time do it's thing.I would proudly hold my head up and walk.When a person cheats on you, I think that just shows the lack of respect that they have for you.I always let them know that if they ever decided they wanted to be with someone else then just respect me enough to let me know and handle things like an adult should.I would respect someone more for breaking up with me before cheating rather than to be with them while they are cheating only to come home and smile in my face after your face has been all up in another womans face.I don't do well with people insulting my intelligence or "trying" to play me for a fool when they only played themselves....Just my thought

[Tere2]

Been there, too, but I made him leave and told him not to let the door hit him in the 

[vlsm23]

I would more than likely pack up and leave.  I really love my husband, but once people cheat, there is a tendency to repeat the offense.  I am not a revenge type of person - I tended to get really depressed when it happened in my youth.

[aspenl]

For me it depends on if it was an ongoing affair that I never knew about or if it was 10 minutes one night after we had fought and he immediately told me what he'd done and seemed distraught about it.  Neither one would be anywhere close to easy to forgive (meaning go on together).  However if I found out about a planned affair even if he did seem remorseful, it would be extremely hard to do anything but divorce.

[klkwid]

Kind of depends on the situation.  There are some instances that MIGHT be forgivable.  Those instances would be very unusual situations, though!!  For the most part I'd tell my guy to take a hike!!!

[steven8280]

i dont know what all you guys have against cheaters. they bring all the fun and drama into boring relationships! because of them they make you stronger and sometimes make you give up on women or men and make you go gay but its all right! stealing other people girlfriends is actually kind of fun once you get the hang of it! give it a try all u guys good luck!

[illboy]

Meh, just leave.

[bet_2008]

me too