Relationships

[kleenex40]

If i wasnt married i would just like to have a friend to hang with once in awhil(i dont mean to be negitive or anything but i would find it much easer  to live by my self so i can do what i want

[annettefayeroach]

If you can find the right person it is worth it but if not STAY SINGLE.

[derrick12480]

Most people don't want to be alone but it's better to be alone and unhappy than married and unhappy. Just stay single and find your happiness in other things.

[LaTashaS28]

I would rather be in a relationship with someone who I can share my life with, grow with, love, and spend happy times together.

[loriecampbell]

The grass is NOT always greener on the other side. Been married 14 years with none us every having children. Embrace being single but, if able to, do things you really really want to do. Once married you may not get the chance. Your life becomes a lot of theirs and that can make it a little difficult at times.

[candyterrius]

Most people don't want to be alone but it's better to be alone and unhappy than married and unhappy. Just stay single and find your happiness in other things.

You mean “it’s better to be alone and happy than married and unhappy?” Indeed. The value of marriage is overrated. Some people don’t believe in marriage because they don’t believe in divorce. This world is also filled with all kinds of people with mental problems. If a relationship goes wrong such as adultery can bring on domestic violence and altercation between spouses.

[pstovall]

Coming from the older generation, I believe in marriage, but marriage is like a full time job.  You have to work at it to make it successful, just like anything else in life. If you have love as the foundation, you are off to a good start.  Communication is a big key, also mutual respect, forgiveness, the willingness to compromise, and in general, living by the golden rule.  If you treat your spouse the way you would like to be treated, reciprocation is much more likely. As the old saying goes, you can catch more flies with honey, than vinegar.  Actually these concepts should apply to any relationship whether married or not.

[KaylaHallam]

I've been in a steady relationship for 2 years and I honestly can't wait to be married some day, whether it's with my current boyfriend or someone else. I can't imagine living my life alone. I don't want to sound like I'm not an independent person, but if I find someone that truly brings the best out in me & makes me happy then I don't see why I wouldn't want to be with them for the rest of my life.

[shepherdchik]

Right now I am in a steady relationship and we talk about getting married but we both have too many bills and such to worry about right now. I think if you are happy where you are with who yu are with then just be happy and take it as it comes and for what it is..