Fight with wife

[bigedshult]

When you have a fight we with your spouse what are the seven other ways you do makeup for it. We had a big fight today over some stupid as she call me of making her prime prove her wrong all time but she's always taught me that I'm wrong. An example today she said her plug-in for her air supply was on the floor and it was on her chip cushion right next to her chair under her black her blankets and I told always on the cheek and she got mad because I told her that she was wrong and she wants she said no and I'm a know it all I have to be proven or wrong all the time! What can you do when that happens except leave her alone and hope she gets over it. Do you have any other ideas?

[moonangel]

how patient you must be. it sounds like your wife gets frustrated at times just try to remeber the good times you have had with her.  hopefully this time will pass and things will smooth out for both of you

[rmendoza1]

As a wife of a man who is very intelligent, I still have times where I just need to be alone. I get a little annoyed sometimes, but now I just take some time to cool off and assess the situation. Hopefully your wife will realize that she doesn't have to be right all the time.

[handllucas]

Some people have a thought process where they cannot admit they are wrong. To them it is a weakness and embarassing to do so.
It will take a lot for her to change this thinking - that is if she WANTS to.

[sherryinutah]

I think everyone has times when they benefit from being alone.  Personally, I only want to be with other people when I feel well and I can be on my best behavior.

As far as people being right or wrong; it's perfectly alright to be wrong and admit it.  Love is about bringing out the best in each other and allowing others to be imperfect.

 

[sigmapi1501]

Just ride it out until one of you cheats or dies man

[tin8604]

I try not to get mad about stuff anymore.  My husband is the one who gets in quite a tizzy and I refuse to play into it. It takes so much energy to fight and much less energy to go do something else.

[queenofnines]

Your paragraph was hard to follow. Sounds like a really dumb thing to fight about, although if she's always treating you like you're wrong, there's a real issue there. If she loves you, you should be able to confront her nicely about this.

The next time it happens, remember this marriage saving advice: pick your battles!

[bigedshult]

She thinks I'm always trying to put her down she that I have to prove her wrong all the time. But I'm not putting her down when I show her she's wrong she's always on the on the know it all. And I'm never wrong but I but I am wrong suddenly time and I am rights of the time. But it's hard for me commit that I'm wrong all the time. I love her a lot and we have a fairly decent marriage when were not finding. I think it was yesterday I was feeling sick and she reiterated come now with the same sickness she have any today. That might've been the reason she was feeling bad because she would get coming down with that flulike symptoms. And I wasn't feeling very good myself so I was in no mood to let her try and get away with anything! She says something I really very stupid to argue about but we argued about it because I wouldn't give in. She thought I was trying to prove I was right when she thought I was wrong