Have any body found there soul mate or did you just settled?

[2little]

Well my story is like this I settled but I found my soul mate or my soul mate found me what should I do?

[prettyaddie]

we'll i'm just lucky that i married someone which i could really tell that he's my soulmate. i have a picture taken with him on the back when i was in grade school, don't know him then and became classmates after that, and lovers when we got into college.

[MrPKitty]

My soulmate died.
And now I am left to go on without her.

[ducky74]

I found my soulmate and he is wonderful!!

[abeyta87]

I found my soul mate we were high school sweethearts and he truly is the love of my life

[cah5525]

no. i have realized, the older that i get, that when you go out seeking love, you find trouble. a soul mate is someone that fate drives you to.

[gafee2001]

I always find these kind of posts weird, since why would you ask forum-goers to help you out on some kind of problem you're having?

As for me, I really love the woman I'm with, and I'm happy with her. What else could you expect out of a "soulmate"?
So does that mean I found mine? How am I supposed to know?

[NBolton]

I married my soulmate!

[kamikam]

i settled

[brendy1990]

i found my soulmate when i was 18 and that was 22 years ago.

[ODOMS6598]

it took me two marriages but i found my soulmate.  i love him so much and we have been thru alot together  i truly believe he is my soulmate.  its funny, his sister thinks theres no such thing but wants a relationship like we have.  i am 8 yrs older than him but its not a problem to us.  good luck to anyone looking for a soulmate.  my best advice is to not look but just live and let happen..

[2little]

Gafee2001: I know what I have to do abbout my soulmate and the person that I settled with.

Kamikam: Don't feel bad I settled too and this is my second husband but all that is going to change soon. Right now my soul mate is my boyfriend. Don't get me wrong I haven't took it to the next level (sex) just been talking

[tonkit]

I FOUND MY SOULMATE 26 YEARS AGO AND HAVE BEEN  KEEPING ON AND ON EVERY SINCE EVEN THROUGH THE UPS &DOWNS.

[aspenl]

I always find these kind of posts weird, since why would you ask forum-goers to help you out on some kind of problem you're having?

As for me, I really love the woman I'm with, and I'm happy with her. What else could you expect out of a "soulmate"?
So does that mean I found mine? How am I supposed to know?

I agree.  I love my husband and I'm happy with him.  It doesn't mean that I couldn't be happy with someone else.  Besides being happy is almost always a choice we ourselves make.  If we aren't happy with our relationship we shouldn't go around blaming the others involved, if we want to be happy we find the things there are to be happy about and we choose to be happy.  It isn't about settling, its about choices.

[flotowngolfer]

I'm honestly not sure if I've found my soulmate or if I've settled. I'm happyish, and pretty comfortable, and we have long term plans, but who knows? Tomorrow, I could meet someone better and be gone. I don't plan on it, but it could happen.