love...cant live with it ..cant live without it

[heavenlyscent]

Ladies and gents,please help your sister out with this topic its heavy on my mind...why is it that when u try to love a person they push u away then when u walk away they want u to stay? im so tired of the games and mind games in these relationships, hel me to understand y i feel like its a game and if possible show me how to play,im tired of losing in love . i feel like im losing because i cant seem to get it right..... what am i doing wrong..thanks,,i cant wait for some good advice

[cateyes1]

I think they are testing you, trying to see how much you REALLY want them, I know that sounds silly BUT....I cant wait to see what others say as well!!

[kay7]

There is no game and to assume that there is may be part of your problem developing  relationship.  First and foremost, you must respect the other person and treat them as you would want to be treated.

[swkstudent]

Sounds like a selfish person to me, they only want to return the love when you're trying to leave only to ignore you or push you away when you get back with them. There should be no game playing when it comes to love. You don't need to learn how to play something that is so ridiculous and pointless. Find a partner with sanity.