Should married men be allowed to keep their adult film collection?

[king4cash]

My response is yes. They can be a source of fun in the bedroom. This will help to spice up the relationship. A man will always be a man.

[sgluckadoo]

i dont think there should be a law that says you are married you must throw it away, but it definately is up to the couple about whether it is still appropriate or not.

[Cuppycake]

I don't care personally. My husband has a collection. I mean if he had something in his collection that was um of the distasteful sort sure I would ask him to 86 that particular one. It hasn't been an issue though as his collection is of the normal and not of the fetish variety lol! I am not a prude so I am not going to go off on him about it !

[nadarama]

No! A bit fat no!

[tzs]

I think men should be satisfied with their wives. There should be no reason for him to want to look at other women if he's getting enough at home. Men have to realize that entering the married life means what he used to do is either limited or halted at the alter. No exceptions. That's why men hesitate to make that leap because his priorities chage.

I dissagree with you. Men should be satisfied with their wives, but it's in Man's nature to be stimulated visually by their enviroment. To go against that would be going against the very nature that is male. Now with that said, whether or not he has evolved enough to stick with one chick, well that's a different story...

[jowbow]

My husband had some adult films before we got married.  I did ask if he would get rid of them because of my son.  Don't get me wrong every man has the right to have adult films or mags.  But when there is a small child involved I don't want that child to get the wrong idea about what couple want or willing to do in the bedroom.  And my husband did get rid of some of them but kept a couple of them that we watch together to this day. 

[LaKecias]

I say no I think it is so disrespectful for a man to keep that stuff around when he's married. I don't see how men think it's not. Think from his wife prospective. My husband knows I find that disrespectful and whatever has if he has he doesn't let me see or know about it. Trust I did have to remind him a few time lol

[Flackle]

I would hate myself if I was so insecure that I would tell someone to get rid of photographs/videos of other people because otherwise they'll love me less.

[HuffmanFamilyof4]

it all has to do with trust. if you trust your spouse (Husband or Wife) enough to know they will not cheat on you, then why make them throw out their collection . First ask them if they really need that stuff and if they could please throw them away or give them away. If they want to keep them, then move on. what ever you do don't make them feel as if they are beneath you as that will cause more problems then having a collectin of x-rated movies. If they see that it doesn't bother you, then most likely they will get rid of them, as they will want you to keep  trusting them and not loose faith in their judgement. It will work out in the long haul.

[Warhol04]

Marriage is a different subject, but I don't see why my girlfriend should throw away my DVDs of clown *bleep*.  Finding those videos was time consuming.