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annettefayeroach

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #45 on: August 31, 2012, 03:07:01 am »
NOOOOOOO!!!!! I just don't see how you can love someone and yet be with other people. I don't believe in that.

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #46 on: August 31, 2012, 03:22:09 am »
I agree what everyone is saying. Ya, why get married if you want sally on the side. I can't believe anyone would settle for that kind of abuse. Which is why, I can't stand those religions/cults that allow a man to have more than 1 wife. Yet, it's forbidden for the women to go out & have a life away from the group marriage.I think most wouldn't agree on something like an open marriage; why get married? Would b a total wastes of money!

I think the reason why would anyone have an open marriage, is due to finance issues/gains. Look like the loving couple for dear old gramp's sake & sleep in separate rooms when it's just them! :thumbsup: :wave:

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #47 on: August 31, 2012, 05:40:08 am »
A marriage between a man and woman are sacred to each other and also to God.
So NO i think it would be wrong!!!

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #48 on: August 31, 2012, 10:51:10 am »
Open marriages can work. I was in a marriage for 20 years with an open relationship. The reason I walked out after 20 years had nothing to do with the lifestyle. He was a jerk that was always belittling me. Every day he called me a moron or blamed me for his actions. For example he got a speeding ticket at 2:00am on a little highway going 75 in a 60 zone. He was on his motorcycle and I was home in bed with the kids. Would you believe it was my fault because I wouldn't let him quit yet another job. I'm slow and stubborn and I spent 20 years of my life with him it took me a while to get it in my head to leave.
Never give up!!!

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #49 on: August 31, 2012, 10:55:49 am »
So weird that I would come across this forum topic when I was just thinking about this today..I was actually thinking about bringing it up to my fiance and I have been debating about the idea since May this year, I just can't bring myself to ask him because I'm afraid of his reaction.  I read an article on it this morning and I love my fiance I have no intentions of leaving him but what's wrong with exploring the world, life should be about having fun and exploring. 

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #50 on: August 31, 2012, 11:30:40 am »
though im not mariied i dont believe in and open marraige. It was designed between one man and woman.

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #51 on: August 31, 2012, 11:39:01 am »
So weird that I would come across this forum topic when I was just thinking about this today..I was actually thinking about bringing it up to my fiance and I have been debating about the idea since May this year, I just can't bring myself to ask him because I'm afraid of his reaction.  I read an article on it this morning and I love my fiance I have no intentions of leaving him but what's wrong with exploring the world, life should be about having fun and exploring. 


I would bring it up to him still. if he say's no then respect his wishes, if you love him enough you'll stay, if not and you still want an open relationship then I think it's time to move on to find someone who will.......but i'm hoping you love him enough to stay with ONLY him....hmm does that make sense lol

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #52 on: August 31, 2012, 11:46:32 am »
As for myself i would never have an open marriage/i geuss if the couple agree on an open marriage then thats between them / personal I don't see how they can work

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #53 on: August 31, 2012, 06:35:33 pm »
I don't believe in open marriage.
If you want an open marriage, why get married at the first place?!

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #54 on: September 01, 2012, 04:01:04 am »
There's always threesomes  :o

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #55 on: September 01, 2012, 06:31:43 am »
An open marriage is for immature people who want to believe they can combine the benefits of being single and being married. They are selfish and do not think of the children or their own emotional health. This is simply a new label for adultery. That's a wash, forget it, it's nothing more than an invitation to a bunch of drama in a marriage. :BangHead:

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #56 on: September 01, 2012, 07:06:32 am »
I for one do not believe in an open relationship to many things could go wrong in an open relationship look at fatal attraction or cruel intentions.

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #57 on: September 01, 2012, 07:19:45 am »
Open marriage is not marriage!

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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #58 on: September 01, 2012, 07:58:43 am »
If anyone believes in an open marriage, then why get married in the first place?  That's telling your spouse it's okay to screw around with anybody to get excited about what isn't happening at home. :bs:
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Re: Do you believe in an open marriage?
« Reply #59 on: September 01, 2012, 08:10:44 am »
I do not agree with it and I would not allow my significant other to do it nor would they allow me to do it but I feel that couples should have the right to live that kind of lifestyle if they choose to.

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