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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #30 on: June 14, 2012, 08:02:10 am »
Me im trying to conceive hope I can have a baby...I'm married & happy with my husband.

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #31 on: June 14, 2012, 11:49:41 am »
I never could have another one after 3 miscarriages ( 3 girls) and i wanted one so bad. Thank God tho i had 2 boys that were healthy. So take care be happy .

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #32 on: June 14, 2012, 01:24:25 pm »
I know it's hard, it happened to me too. Have faith, relax, keep a healthy lifestyle,and 'God Willing', it'll happen! :angel11:

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #33 on: June 14, 2012, 02:11:36 pm »
as some of u know i've already had 2 miscarriages and the most recent of the 2 was in jan of this year. i'm finding it hard to conceive again. my friend tell me not to give up, but its easier said then done coz it just never happens. i'm sad coz i want to give my fiance a baby that he wants but its just not happening. dr. never said my reproductive organs are bad.. so i dont get it. i hope it isnt his fault. both of us will be crushed. we rather do this naturally so when it does happen .. we both did it! we dont want to force it to happen, but nature isnt being good to us.
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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #34 on: June 14, 2012, 03:40:41 pm »
as some of u know i've already had 2 miscarriages and the most recent of the 2 was in jan of this year. i'm finding it hard to conceive again. my friend tell me not to give up, but its easier said then done coz it just never happens. i'm sad coz i want to give my fiance a baby that he wants but its just not happening. dr. never said my reproductive organs are bad.. so i dont get it. i hope it isnt his fault. both of us will be crushed. we rather do this naturally so when it does happen .. we both did it! we dont want to force it to happen, but nature isnt being good to us.
I'm sorry. 23 years ago my son was born 3 1/2 months early. He didn't make it. But I have never been able to get pregant since. Now at 47 I don't want to so I have no kids. Have you thought about adoption?

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #35 on: July 02, 2012, 12:17:34 pm »
we had our first ultrasound 2 weeks ago and at that time we were 6 wks along. we saw the heartbeat and heart the heartbeat and my fiances mother cried. she's so happy. so we have another ultrasound today and we are now 8 wks along. hope all is well coz i dont want to miscarry again. my friend spilled the beans in front of my grandma. i didnt tell her yet coz i assumed she was still upset about the last miscarriage. some of my friends are pregnant too. 3 that i know of right now. one already has 3 kids..1 miscarriage(so she knew what i was going through with mine). hope all goes well and she is done after this one.

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #36 on: July 02, 2012, 12:34:45 pm »
Don't give up!  I have friends that were told they couldn't have children...various medical issues from both male and female were contributors in this medical decision.  They continued to pray to be blessed with twins someday.  They began making plans on adoption.  They were more than 1/2 way through the process when guess what.  EPT stated + and just to be sure my gf peed on two sticks.  Guess what one for each baby girl.  If you are meant to have babies God will make it happen.  There is a time for everything.  It's hard not to focus and dwell on it but have faith.

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #37 on: July 02, 2012, 12:36:27 pm »
Miscarrying was one of the most difficult things that every happened in my life. I don't think I would be able to handle one right after another very well. I gained tons of weight, more than if the baby had made it to term. I couldn't do anything without breaking down and crying. I really feel for you. I hope those of you who want to can have a successful pregnancy in the future, God willing, but remember that you are still a wonderful person whether or not you have another pregnancy.

I know how powerful the urge/desire to have a baby can be and how hard it is when things don't work so that urge can be met. Still, do your best to keep your spirits high!

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #38 on: July 02, 2012, 01:58:07 pm »
I'm very happy for you!  :) My friend is having problems after 2 miscarriages ...she's so sad and I don't know what to say to her other than never give up hope and I'm there for her. She's supposed to start IVF treatments soon, so I hope she gets a pleasant surprise soon as you did  :)

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #39 on: July 02, 2012, 02:04:49 pm »
as some of u know i've already had 2 miscarriages and the most recent of the 2 was in jan of this year. i'm finding it hard to conceive again. my friend tell me not to give up, but its easier said then done coz it just never happens. i'm sad coz i want to give my fiance a baby that he wants but its just not happening. dr. never said my reproductive organs are bad.. so i dont get it. i hope it isnt his fault. both of us will be crushed. we rather do this naturally so when it does happen .. we both did it! we dont want to force it to happen, but nature isnt being good to us.
   well if you read the bible you know jesus can heal your womb so first get saved and the lord will bless your family

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #40 on: July 04, 2012, 09:22:15 am »
well our appointment was rescheduled because we were gonna be like 20 mins late coz we were on the other side of town. so now it is on sat at 8:30 by our place. we should be able to see the arms and legs now. i'm not showing at all yet and i would like to keep it that way until the very end of the pregnancy. my friend only gained 11 pounds throughout her last pregnancy. the baby wouldnt let her eat sometimes. my baby wont let me eat A LOT. and after i eat i feel sick. i havent puked yet at all so that is good.

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #41 on: July 04, 2012, 09:47:23 am »
my sister is the same way. she had 4-5 miscarriages before shoe got pregnant with my neice who is now 8 yrs old. she got pregnant at the same time as me 3 and a half years ago. but ended up having an ectopic pregnancy and had to have one of her tubes removed. so that cut her chances of getting pregnant in half. she is 32 yrs old and is still trying for a second but her days of conceiving are almost over. im not trying to put u down just posting an experience, good luck and i hope u are able to conceive.have u tried IVF? i know its expensive and it may not always work but it couldn't hurt. :)

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #42 on: July 06, 2012, 09:49:37 am »
i had my first spell of morning sickness. i puked up stomach acid. good thing i decided to wait to eat. i was feeling like crap all day and i felt better after puking but it's coming on again. i have lost 5 pounds since i got pregnant coz this baby wont let me eat much of anything. i have been able to keep things down until now. i got some nutritional shakes in the baby isle but its not enough.

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #43 on: July 06, 2012, 11:24:14 am »
i tryed for 9 years i could never give up now im single and 42 its sad keep trying

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Re: hard to conceive another baby after miscarriages
« Reply #44 on: July 07, 2012, 08:35:01 am »
well i was told i had an obgyn appointment today and we were gonna have an ultrasound but when i got to where i was supposed to be they told me it wasnt today it was for the 14th and we had an appointment on the 5th which i knew nothing about and it was cancelled by the person at the desk. so, now i'm almost 9 wks along, and had only one ultrasound. next week i will be going on 10wks along and the baby will definitely have it's arms and legs by then. i would really like to know right now if this baby is growing normally or not. we had a miscarriage with the last one so they should know im worried. 

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