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falcon9

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #135 on: May 28, 2012, 11:32:12 am »
I hope you don't let the narrow minded run you off.  Just skip right past them ...

I too would hope that new members, (and 'old'), wouldn't let "narrow-minded" xtians run them off of FC, (which is not some exclusive xtian site/forum/country-club).  Rather than "skip right past them", I challenge their narrow-minded self-righteousness head on even if they "rarely check to see what someone said to something" sanctimoniously-asserted by xtians.

I rarely check to see what someone said to something I commented on.  


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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #136 on: May 30, 2012, 08:08:21 am »
When you post something about your own deep beliefs it is important to realize that others don't always share your view and discussions will arise. That is part of posting in the debate section of fusioncash. If you want to stick to less argumentative topics then post about what you ate or what is the weather like where you live, or give helpful advice for using the site, etc.. Obviously some people can take these topics too seriously and end up hurting feelings in the process. Usually it is the idea they attack and not the person behind the idea. I hope you can see the difference. If they are directly attacking you on the forum then by all means turn them into the administrator but if they are playing by the rules everyone has the right to their opinion.   

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #137 on: May 30, 2012, 01:54:35 pm »
Obviously some people can take these topics too seriously and end up hurting feelings in the process. Usually it is the idea they attack and not the person behind the idea. I hope you can see the difference. If they are directly attacking you on the forum then by all means turn them into the administrator but if they are playing by the rules everyone has the right to their opinion.   

The problem there is that some people will mistakenly perceive a challenge to an idea, (or 'belief'), as a "personal attack" and proceed to falsely report such challenges to ideas/beliefs to a moderator, (and in doing so, fabricate such false accusations as "harrassment", "bullying", etc. - anything but acknowledging that their specious beliefs/ideas/opinions were being challenged as unsubstantiated assertions).
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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #138 on: May 30, 2012, 08:33:30 pm »
Obviously some people can take these topics too seriously and end up hurting feelings in the process. Usually it is the idea they attack and not the person behind the idea. I hope you can see the difference. If they are directly attacking you on the forum then by all means turn them into the administrator but if they are playing by the rules everyone has the right to their opinion.   

The problem there is that some people will mistakenly perceive a challenge to an idea, (or 'belief'), as a "personal attack" and proceed to falsely report such challenges to ideas/beliefs to a moderator, (and in doing so, fabricate such false accusations as "harrassment", "bullying", etc. - anything but acknowledging that their specious beliefs/ideas/opinions were being challenged as unsubstantiated assertions).
The challenging of the beliefs/ideas/opinions are not wrong at all - I agree with that totally.  However, when one is called "delusional, irrational, narrow-minded, and similar meanings, that turns into personal insults of the person, which would be breaking the Golden Rule and a couple of other rules.  And if that's the way someone treats another, it just opens the door to being treated the same way - but that's the inverted idea of the Golden Rule and is not fair nor right to either side, at that point.

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #139 on: May 30, 2012, 11:02:05 pm »
Obviously some people can take these topics too seriously and end up hurting feelings in the process. Usually it is the idea they attack and not the person behind the idea. I hope you can see the difference. If they are directly attacking you on the forum then by all means turn them into the administrator but if they are playing by the rules everyone has the right to their opinion.   

The problem there is that some people will mistakenly perceive a challenge to an idea, (or 'belief'), as a "personal attack" and proceed to falsely report such challenges to ideas/beliefs to a moderator, (and in doing so, fabricate such false accusations as "harrassment", "bullying", etc. - anything but acknowledging that their specious beliefs/ideas/opinions were being challenged as unsubstantiated assertions).

The challenging of the beliefs/ideas/opinions are not wrong at all - I agree with that totally.  However, when one is called "delusional, irrational, narrow-minded, and similar meanings, that turns into personal insults of the person ...

A certain distinction is nominally made between 'specious' "derrogatory remarks" and those which have been substantiated with the evidence of another's own posted words.  That is, if a person does post "delusional, irrational or narrow-minded" remarks, accurately assessing that they have does not constitute a specious insult.  If an accurate description "insults" the person described, the most direct solution would be for them to cease making specious insults.  If the opposing remarks are not specious, falsely characterizing them as such is disingenuous and serves as a poor substitute for reasoning.

"If a man, holding a belief which he was taught in childhood or persuaded of afterwards, keeps down and pushes away any doubts which arise about it in his mind, purposely avoids the reading of books and the company of men that call in question or discuss it, and regards as impious those questions which cannot easily be asked without disturbing it - the life of that man is one long 'sin' against mankind."
-- William Clifford
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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #140 on: May 31, 2012, 03:46:16 pm »
The issue, though, is that many people who make remarks pertaining to their beliefs, whether religion or not, but mostly religion, do not see their remarks as irrational/delusional/narrow-minded.  They believe what they are saying.  They express their opinion to you and you still cut them down.  So, then if they try to remark something back to you that your remark is only your opinion, you still come back at them about their opinion of your opinion is "specious, empty-based, etc."  However, you are trying to force your opinions as facts and that is where the crux of the matter is.  People are entitled to their beliefs and opinions, whether they are agreeable with you or not, based on what both sides see or understand about the subject.

 I can see challenging some opinions or some of what some may say are facts when they really may not be.  You challenge anything and everything a religious person's posts using your same words over and over and over and over again.  People would like to maybe see actual responses from you with reasons included about your ideas, instead of simply turning them off with your same big words over and over.  It starts to sound like a recording you are perhaps hiding behind instead of discussing the issue. 

I've seen you joke with others on things and discuss other subjects with opinions and facts back and forth, very funny and great, at that, yet with the religious subjects, the recording is clicked on, instead, to combat remarks and opinions made from others, which then just goes nowhere, and instead, stirs the pot, because they are not being acknowledged with their thoughts and opinions with respect and courtesy.

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #141 on: May 31, 2012, 04:07:34 pm »
When I make a post on the forum, I really hope, that i do not cause anyone to take offense to my post. However, all I can do is  state my thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, and  if  I someone takes offense where none exists, then thats on them.
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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #142 on: May 31, 2012, 04:56:21 pm »
The issue, though, is that many people who make remarks pertaining to their beliefs, whether religion or not, but mostly religion, do not see their remarks as irrational/delusional/narrow-minded.  They believe what they are saying. 

That's immaterial regarding whether or not such remarks are "irrational/delusional/narrow-minded" or specious opinions.  Not incidentally, the determination of those descriptive aspects relies upon rationality/logical reasoning/definitions of those adjectives, (not upon unsubstantiated opinion).  Therefore, an unsubstantiated opinion coming from someone who posts remarks which are "irrational/delusional/narrow-minded"/specious opinions is inherently biased and self-serving unless it has a basis in rationality/logical reasoning/definitions of those adjectives.

They express their opinion to you and you still cut them down.

On the contrary, that is the subjective impression/opinion of someone who doesn't appreciate logical reasoning and rationality, (apparently preferring irrationality/self-delusion/narrow-minded blind faith instead).  For example, if someone engages in a civil litigation alleging 'slander' or 'libel', not only must they demonstrate that financial or other actual damages have resulted but, must be demonstrated by valid evidence, (not specious opinion), to be false.  That means, if the allegations are true, such a libel or slander case will be dismissed by a court.

'Dumbed-down'; that means 'if the shoe fits ...'

So, then if they try to remark something back to you that your remark is only your opinion ...

No, there's a difference between an informed and rational basis for an "opinion" and an uninformed and irrational basis for another opinion.

... you still come back at them about their opinion of your opinion is "specious, empty-based, etc." 

That occurs only in such instances where their counter-opinions continue to stem from an uninformed and irrational basis.  In an instance where such a basis is informed, rational and factual, such an opinion would not be designated as specious.  

However, you are trying to force your opinions as facts and that is where the crux of the matter is.

No; once again the "crux of the matter" is the qualitive difference between an informed and rational basis for an "opinion" and an uninformed and irrational basis for another opinion.  Further, neither an uninformed nor, informed opinion can be "forced" in a text-based medium.  One remains able to accept or reject other opinions as they choose - there are no tazers on FC.

People are entitled to their beliefs and opinions, whether they are agreeable with you or not, based on what both sides see or understand about the subject.

Indeed, I've previous agreed, (more than once), that people are "entitled" to whatever specious/non-specious belief/disbelief uninformed/informed opinions they choose to hold.  Whether or not such is "agreeable" or disagreeable is only relevant when discerning the difference between an informed and rational basis for an "opinion" and an uninformed and irrational basis for another opinion.  Every instance of my challenging such "opinions" has arisen from an understanding of that difference, (and an apparent failure to discern that difference by those who object to having their cherished "opinions" challenged/questioned).

I can see challenging some opinions or some of what some may say are facts when they really may not be.  You challenge anything and everything a religious person's posts using your same words over and over and over and over again. 

Since generally the same unsubstantiated religious opinions are being posted and re-posted, over and over again, why should my challenges to them be any different?  If different challenges are wanted, perhaps different religious beliefs should be posted.

People would like to maybe see actual responses from you with reasons included about your ideas, instead of simply turning them off with your same big words over and over.  It starts to sound like a recording you are perhaps hiding behind instead of discussing the issue. 

Those are my actual responses to religious dissembling & prevariacations, in the words I normally use to communicate with.  If such words are 'too' "big", the options are easily defined.  Learn new words or, ignore posts which aren't understood.  There are over 4,245 of my posts clearly demonstrating that I haven't been "hiding" behind words to discuss a subject.  On the contrary, I've used words whose meanings are known to me to articulate my reasoning when replying to a contentious post, (as I'm doing now).

I've seen you joke with others on things and discuss other subjects with opinions and facts back and forth, very funny and great, at that, yet with the religious subjects, the recording is clicked on ...

That's no "recording".  To reiterate; those are my actual responses to religious dissembling & prevariacations, in the words I normally use to communicate with.  If such words are 'too' "big", the options are easily defined.  Learn new words or, ignore posts which aren't understood.

... instead, to combat remarks and opinions made from others, which then just goes nowhere, and instead, stirs the pot ...

If a discussion or debate seems to be going "nowhere", that's because at least one of the participants isn't choosing to employ logical reasoning to either their position or, the position of another, (alternatively, a participant may be unable to employ logic and instead, becomes incensed when their illogic/irrationality is challenged ... which is additionally irrational).  In order for a debate to proceed, the participants involved would each present opposing viewpoints and then logically, (or, illogically, I suppose), argue/provide supporting evidence for their position.  Debates which go "nowhere" usually consist of at least one participant putting forth irrational/illogical/unsubstantiated 'opinions' in lieu of reasoned rebuttal or refutation.

... because they are not being acknowledged with their thoughts and opinions with respect and courtesy.

Contrary to an opposite 'belief', no one is under any obligation to acknowledge specious or, non-specious opinions or beliefs, (either with "respect and courtesy" or, disrespect and discourtesy).  By responding at all to any publically-posted opinions or beliefs, such are being acknowledged as extant.  The holder of an opinion or belief does not have the ability to choose how their publically-posted belief/opinion is acknowledged, (or not acknowledged).  That would be 'pre-censoring', repressive and disrespectful.  That street runs both ways and my policy is that respect is earned, not passed out like candy at All Hallow's Eve.  Such initial disrespect as is liberally handed-out by several xtians is either disregarded or, (if insistant), returned in spades.  

Remember that 'ignore button' or, keep 'trolling' by ignoring the substantive replies made to your non-quoting posting method in order to rant on.

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #143 on: May 31, 2012, 04:58:06 pm »
When I make a post on the forum, I really hope, that i do not cause anyone to take offense to my post. However, all I can do is  state my thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, and  if  I someone takes offense where none exists, then thats on them.

Precisely so.  Thanks for being more concise then my somewhat 'long-winded' response, "LAkathi".
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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #144 on: May 31, 2012, 05:15:57 pm »
Its a wonder your thin skin isn't punctured while typing.  I can't imagine being so insulted by posts on an anonymous forum that I would walk away from easy money. 

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #145 on: May 31, 2012, 05:33:42 pm »
Its a wonder your thin skin isn't punctured while typing.  I can't imagine being so insulted by posts on an anonymous forum that I would walk away from easy money. 

One must consider whether or not the OP was "bubble-boy" in disguise before lavishing too much warranted criticism on him, (especially if he's been gone a month).
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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #146 on: June 01, 2012, 06:55:19 pm »
I just ignore the posts I feel are just somebody's reasoning, whether it be religion or politics, etc.  I have my own opinion on things so I do not have to read any one elses.

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #147 on: June 01, 2012, 07:03:15 pm »
I just ignore the posts I feel are just somebody's reasoning, whether it be religion or politics, etc.  I have my own opinion on things so I do not have to read any one elses.

"Just"?  Is this as opposed to your "opinions" being unreasoned and based upon specious religious beliefs, right?  Your are "entitled", (as they say), to any "opinion" - specious or not.  Maybe others can see what you cannot when they perceive closing your eyes as blind-faith.

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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #148 on: June 01, 2012, 07:12:22 pm »
I just ignore the posts I feel are just somebody's reasoning, whether it be religion or politics, etc.  I have my own opinion on things so I do not have to read any one elses. 

HUH?? 

Okay I must not be reading this correctly.....

You IGNORE everyone else's reasoning.....why? Just because it's not your own??

And since you have your own opinion, you have no need or desire to hear of anyone else's??

Well, I'll BE....and I thought I had heard the weirdest.........

Guess not.
                    
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Re: Forum issues too much to put up with
« Reply #149 on: June 01, 2012, 07:20:09 pm »
I just ignore the posts I feel are just somebody's reasoning, whether it be religion or politics, etc.  I have my own opinion on things so I do not have to read any one elses. 

HUH?? 

Okay I must not be reading this correctly.....
You IGNORE everyone else's reasoning.....why? Just because it's not your own??
And since you have your own opinion, you have no need or desire to hear of anyone else's??

Well, I'll BE....and I thought I had heard the weirdest.........

Guess not.

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