I am sorry you lost your mom. I'm glad I still got mine! Hear her let she's in her late 80s she lives in New Mexico so I don't yet see her much could I live in Oregon. I would see her I was last year and we went on being trip afterwards. My father a lot lived in Spokane or Idaho at the time so we went was from New Mexico up to Denver to Spokane Idaho can visit was my father-in-law's . 98th birthday on July 20 that was last year. We are going go down to all been Utah this year for his 99th birthday cozies move down there after his wife passed away in after Christmas last year. He lives in assisted living home and is very bored he has a hard time hearing or seeing so he can't do much but sat in his chair I like my father-in-law very much he's a very good job and I'm sure he misses his wife. They were married for nearly 20 years that was his second marriage he was married to his first wife for over 50 years so is been married for 70 of the 90 years over seven in the 90 years so it's hard for him getting used to living in a nursing home by himself my brother-in-law. Jerry Baker lives close by Eagles cesium is often he can. But has to leave all day long sat there doing nothing. But twiddle his thumbs waiting to go eat at her age. That don't sound like much fun to me just waiting and can't go watch television can't read you can't listen to your heart and your hearings gone your eyes on all you can do is set in her chair all day long and wait for somebody comes to you