so numb and can not cry no more

[SherylsShado]

I'm so sorry for your loss.  Life deals some hard blows sometimes and when it's the loss of a family member, life just never is quite the same after that.  My deepest sympathies. 

[ptfunds]

I am so sorry to hear about your losses.  Even with the little you said it is clear you are going through a really rough time and are feeling very sad.  Grief is a hard process and it takes time to get through it.  The non-stop tears and overwhelming sadness in your heart will pass and you will feel better.  I hope you have a good support system and are able to allow people to comfort you through this hard time. 

[Lindaroof]

Losing those that we love and have been with our entire lives is one of the hardest things we will ever have to endure, I lost a Grandmother, my mother, and a brother who was only 40 when he passed, all in a 3 month period, and then I lost my father and another brother, the sadness of losing them has left a hole in my heart knowing that I can't pick up the phone and hear their voices anymore. But I do still "talk" to them, they will Live forever in my heart, it took me a lot of years to reach the peace of losing them, but as I said they will live forever thru my love for them. God Bless you. 

[robin1128]

so sorry to hear that but maybe the good Lord needs them for a reason.

[falcon9]

so sorry to hear that but maybe the good Lord needs them for a reason.

Unless there's neither.

[aryeetey_parsley]

Just as a man shall live they shall also die!! There is a time and a place for everything... We don't always understand why these things happen, but that is all a part of understanding the things that we cannot change.. It is the circle of life! We all must live and we all must die... Some go sooner than others... I lost a brother a few years ago. I clong to those precious memories that we have made together and knowing that he is always right there with me in spirit!

[southernhorizons]

if they didn't go to a hell and are just resting in peace... then id be happy for them
because if thats the case then they won't have to suffer ever again
and i don't think it gets any better than that
of course theres no way to know that but i don't feel anyone deserves to go to hell

I can think of some people that deserve to go to hell! Terrorists and traitors, for example.