what is the longest relationship you ever have

[ajami]

My current one 12 years so we decided to get married on 12-12-12 at 12:12.  We got the chapel booked in las vegas where we live.

[cateyes1]

so far 16 years now and going strong 

[laine39]

18 years and in the middle of a horrific divorce now. You never think it will be you it's happening to, even after years of  that you stood by. I really hope there is love for me again the second time around.

[falcon9]

18 years and in the middle of a horrific divorce now. You never think it will be you it's happening to, even after years of  that you stood by. I really hope there is love for me again the second time around.

17 years before a somewhat nasty divorce, (hopefully yours won't be as bad as that).  Found someone new sometime after that - while not looking, curiously enough.

[cateyes1]

18 years and in the middle of a horrific divorce now. You never think it will be you it's happening to, even after years of  that you stood by. I really hope there is love for me again the second time around.

Laine, sorry to hear this, you'll find someone again i'm sure...GOOD LUCK!!.........It's when you stop looking is when someone will walk into your life, it happened to a friend of mine!!

[queenofnines]

I'm coming up on 5 years (married for 4). 

[lizandhobbes]

I've been with my guy for 16 years but we're still not married.  That's the way I like it 

[devideddi]

just celebrated my 25 anniversary

[hempick]

I've been with my guy for 16 years but we're still not married.  That's the way I like it 

I don't blame you.  I don't want to be married either.  Thankfully my g/f feels the same way.

My longest relationship is my current one.  (8 months on March 10th.)

18 years and in the middle of a horrific divorce now. You never think it will be you it's happening to, even after years of  that you stood by. I really hope there is love for me again the second time around.

Laine, sorry to hear this, you'll find someone again i'm sure...GOOD LUCK!!.........It's when you stop looking is when someone will walk into your life, it happened to a friend of mine!!

I agree.  It happened to me, too.  =)

[sak4kat]

Kudo's to you all who have stuck through the good and the bad.  I was in a 15 year relationship with a man.  12 of which we were married.  Now I realize it was the most unhealthy relationship ever.  Still to this day I find things out about the man that add up to lies during our marriage.  I wish I would have listened to my Mom and sisters.  They said 19 is to young to get married...boy were they right. 

[pattersondebra]

I met my husband in January, engaged in april, and married in September all in the same year. That was 35 years ago. I love him with all my heart. Together we have 3 daughters 2 son-in-laws and 4 grandaughters. Life is good!!!!

[girlswin2]

Mine is 16-1/2 years married and very happy.  I found my soul mate and I can say that we have never had a fight and very thankful for that.  We talk about everything every feeling and if he has a different view of something and I have a different from his we don't fight and fuss we tell each other why we feel that way. Then we agree one way or the other or just keep our own view but no fussing .  We are always together and i love it.  I hope that each person out there can find there true love.  I am very grateful for finding him.   

[kay7]

We will have our 45th wedding anniversary on the 11th of March and we dated for almost a year before getting married.  We knew each other for about 5 years before that.  I think having the same background and knowing the same people has been helpful over the years.

[timandvicky1]

16 years for me, then ended in divorce....

[LAkathi]

Twenty years and still going strong.