No I will not cheat.

[carty1]

My mate treats me really good. I pray everyday for our marriage to stay strong. We have some ups and downs but relationships are hard? What do you think? What is the hardest part of a relationship?

[jstev4506]

I think every day when you wake up you make a choice to be with your partner and love, honor, cherish him/her. It is beautiful to see people honoring a commitment but moreover, honoring the other person with such love. With all the stressors in our lives today it can be such a struggle but a committed couple who trust eachother completely will withstand anything that life brings.

[tzs]

Having empathy for one another. Understanding that both of you have to respect eahother.

[blondie71]

I think couples who communicate and talk to each other is very important in a relationship. I have been with my husband 10 years.  Since I had to quit working we are home together all the time so its hard to communicate when there is a problem or frustration.  We work on it though and I try to be patient because my husband has a brain injury and he doesn't understand sometimes when I explain things. Another thing I try to do is never go to bed mad, my grandmother told me this.  Its hard to start another day when you wake up mad.  Life is getting harder with prices of everything going up so the stress levals are high worrying about everything.  My husband treat me really good, my other relationships before I met him where horriable and I was mistreated so I do feel special in my mirrage.  He loves me for who I am not what I look like and not how much money I have (or don't have).  We also agreed before we got married that there was no need to fight over money because neither of us have any and we can't help whats going on in the world but we can be there for each other.  COMMUNICATION IS VERY IMPORTANT!

[tigerlilly01]

marriage is very hard.  I am married to a wonderful man .... third marriage.  My first two husbands cheated on me and the second was verbally and sometimes physically abusive.  I love my husband very much but it is a struggle everyday to work on your relationship.  It is my #1 priority and in my horrible chaos of my family drama with sickness, disfunction, among so many other things it is difficult.  I pray everyday for my husband and my marriage.  I think God has to be 1st .... then other relationships come next.

[falcon9]

I think God has to be 1st .... then other relationships come next.

With such a priority emphasis, what could possibly go wrong?

[inertia4]

Relationships are hard. No one ever said they were easy. I know. My ex was a liar and a sneak and a cheater. She destroyed everything and took everything away from me. She had help from a few people. I was left alone and broke. Now I am in a bad position in my life. But I know deep down that what goes around comes around. And she will feel the wrath of what she done to me in time. Karma. You know.

[kingozzy]

For me money has always been a major issue due to the fact that I never have enough

[diala84]

You have to chose every day to not give up on each other no matter the circumstances. Sure you will disagree and fight sometimes but when you compromise and talk out your problems with the intent to stay together you will. Divorce or separation means giving up on the relationship. Both people have to be committed to make it work.   

[akpage12]

i think that hardest part of a relationship is keeping things fresh so you dont get bored. I think that that is the biggest problem is that most people get bored and then they cheat or leave.

[lbryanwf]

I have to say the hardest part of a relationship is initially picking the right one. Anyone ever seen the show "Who the (Bleep) did I marry?" Very scary, that someone can be so pathologically disingenuous yet so smooth and charming that you never know it. I worked 10 years as a Deputy Sheriff, supervising inmates in the County jail. That was my first exposure to just how lying and manipulating people can be with each other.

[marcar1008]

I think as long as you both agree on something, it will take you a long way. If you are wrong , you need to recognize it and hear his/her opinion. Always work things out together. Never go to bed mad about something.    Blessings

[mh874892]

What do you think? What is the hardest part of a relationship?

To me, the hardest part of any relationship is admitting your own faults. When you mess up, be accountable and then work towards fixing it. If both people in the relationship work at this, it will only make them stronger together.

[mrisha]

There are no hard parts when you both can sit down and communicate, respect each other, compromising when needed and loving each other.  Being different if what makes a relationship work, but you shouldn't have to lose sleep over it.

[bigfoot951]

I have never cheated and really don't think I ever will, but I hesitate to say anything for sure.  I am sure there are a lot of people who cheated who said that they never would at some point.