what do you do when your mate looks at the opposite sex in front of you?

[letilebron]

we have been toghether for 10 years now so it does'nt really bother me as much as it use to. i do find it disrespectful when he does it although he takes sneek peeks and thinks i did'nt see him. i find it so funny.... life is too short for me to give myself a headache...besides what men does'nt look. sorry guys!!! not saying women does'nt, im just speaking from my perspective.

[tantricia44]

I'd smack him in the brains & say what the hell are you looking at?!! LoL.... I don't think it's bad for him to just look as long as there's no following the hoe & cheating on you. You're lucky he's just looking b/c in high school, I had a jerk bF that would during our date point out hot looking chicks & ask me what i thought. Should have been a huge signal that this jerk is not bf material! But what can you do when you're an insecure teen. Maybe you should turn the tables around & start gazing at gorgeous Guys! Go as far as asking him if a guy you targeted looks cute on your dates. LoL

[lmt09]

I'd say have a little fun with it. Start checking that girl out too, remarking on how hot she is! You'll either a. turn him on and get him back to focusing on you and what're you saying or b. confuse the hell out of him. Win/win, I say. lol

[letilebron]

you'll are too funny!!!  LOL... you'll got me cracking up.

[lotsofbabies77]

so heres what ya do..you act lke everything is all good but when the chance becomes available you do the same in return but make it obvious what your doing so when he freaks out you let him have a temper tantrum then say it doesnt feel good does it..that always got my point across and i didnt have no worries..wish ya the best.

[letilebron]

yeah thats a good one lotsofbabies77...lol

[lotsofbabies77]

its way child like of me but its still fun every time and i always leave with a smile..

[ayerla41]

I've never noticed it. But I'd probably laugh at him.

[tzs]

I'd say have a little fun with it. Start checking that girl out too, remarking on how hot she is! You'll either a. turn him on and get him back to focusing on you and what're you saying or b. confuse the hell out of him. Win/win, I say. lolD

GOOD ANSWER!

Men are visual creatures, so they will look at other beautiful women besides yourself. Nothing you can do about it, its in their nature!!! Doesn't mean he doesn't love you or anything like that. He's just hormonally driven to do so. SORRY!!!

[tammypete]

I just laugh it off and then make a comment about the next good looking guy I see!  As long as he is with me and is just "looking" then I'm ok with it!!  He is a man...and men are gonna be men!

[Tresbn00]

My wife and I are secure enough in ourselves, each other, and our marriage to look at other people without an ouce of jealousy.  We will even go so far as to point out another attractive human if one of us happens to miss the viewing.  We love to people watch.  My wife had a pang of jealousy a few months back when an attractive female was making suggestive overtures but I just removed proximity to the offending party...my wife wasn't worried about me but didn't care for the lack of respect the other person had for our relationship.

[aggie49]

well i go by this old rule as long as it is just looking your good its when they start touching then theres a problem

[wittylance]

I think men get more jealouse when their mate looks at another man but some women get upset to.  I know being a man my joulousy kicks in but what are you going to do. I am going to tell you a situation that happen to my mom.  These group of men where staring at her while she was at a bank drive up and her husband was with her he noticed and got upset but she was like what men are you talking about I didn't see anybody, she didn't even notice that they where flirting with her but her husband sure noticed.  I thought it was funny but he didn't.

[mzbrowneyez22]

i like lotsofbabies77's response haha. 

[cupcakez843]

I WOULD HAVE TO SAY I WOULD TURN THE OTHER CHEEK BECAUSE IN GOD'S  EYE I HAVE HIM STAY STRONG KEEP YA HEAD UP JUST LIKE TUPAC SAY