My friend and her stretch marks.......

[BK_Adores_Chase]

She has them right on her *bleep* and they are REALLY BAD and really noticable.  She is a really pretty girl but as soon as she walks into the room that's the first thing you notice and I asked my fiance about it and he said YEAH I KNOW so I know I'm not the only one who feels this way.. they are on her *bleep* and I feel like girl to girl I should let her know.  She is having a baby soon so maybe since her hormones are changing I should keep it to myself but she should really change her style to accomodate her new "gift" of mommy hood.

[Azanne07]

at least she isnt so embarrassed that shes totally covered herself up.

[Joeyramone]

How big can the stretch marks be?  How much boob/clevage does she show? 

[dreamyxo]

She doesn't have to go around with her *bleep* hanging out she can wear shirts that fully cover her chest if she is self conscious about it.  If she's not and she wants to show her cleavage and her stretch marks then so be it.  People are going to stare regardless oh well not much she can do about it but try some of those new creams they have out now. 

[BeccaGoga]

If she was insecure about her stretch marks then she wouldn't show her cleavage. She has a choice in what she wears and what her style choice is, is up to her.

[L4v4]

If you don't have anything nice to say. . . don't say anything at all. Seriously, she probably knows.

[vmarie86]

It's her body so I'm pretty sure she knows she has stretch marks. It probably doesn't bother her and that's good that she's comfortable with herself.

[BK_Adores_Chase]

OKay, sheesh people --- I mean I have stretch marks too, but hers are a deep red like burgendy so they are super noticable.  If she's comfortable with it, fine, I'm not knocking girls with stretch marks because after 2 kids I have them as well...

[rnassar4]

Im sure she has noticed her stretch marks so I guess she doesn't care what people think or say. In my opinion , maybe its bothering you more than it bothers her. As much as you feel like being a loyal friend and telling her what is so obviously on her body, you should really think about letting it go.you will only make her feel self conscious and during this time when her hormones are going crazy,I don't think that would be a good thing.

[BK_Adores_Chase]

Honestly, I don't think I would have said anything just because deep down I know doing so would be stupid, and you all just made it clear that I was making the right choice all along...

[dsilentshadow]

ummmmmm........... Does she have a boyfriend?

[lynnc35]

I think you should let her know in a polite way, that all women get them when they get pregnant, and maybe till after she has the baby some more comfortable clothes. Maybe she don't see them as you do, or she just really dont' care, some women dont' care, and they dress to impress themselves not so much anyone else, if they think they look good, it is good with them, but tell her you are just being a friend, and it is a good thing bringing a baby into the world, but it comes with side affects.

[kaileemichelle07]

If u feel like u should tell her then do it but u neber no how she will react

[poppy1]

If she is a friend, pick a nice setting and let her know. Because if you notice it then everyone else notices them. I'm sure she would not mind and will truly understand that you care. 

[salasdavid]

almost everybody in this world has this problem with stretch marks.  You should tell her to consider visiting a doctor.