I am in love with a Army Captain

[AngelBaby234]

hiya all I am new to this site & I am in love with a army Capt & hes been counting on me to send him money but I cant come up with the amount of 500.00 I since lost my job & am having a hard time finding work does any one have any ideas ? thank you & God Bless 

[dreamyxo]

Why are you sending money to a man (I'm assuming you're not married) that you're not married to?  If he is in the army he is having all his needs met.  If he is is deployed he is getting even more pay.  And you don't even have a job!  Is he crazy?  Are you crazy?  Sending gifts and care packages is one thing but a grown man with a job expecting a woman with no job to send him money is really raising some red flags to me.  You really need to sit down and think about what you are doing.

[southernhorizons]

Why are you sending money to a man (I'm assuming you're not married) that you're not married to?  If he is in the army he is having all his needs met.  If he is is deployed he is getting even more pay.  And you don't even have a job!  Is he crazy?  Are you crazy?  Sending gifts and care packages is one thing but a grown man with a job expecting a woman with no job to send him money is really raising some red flags to me.  You really need to sit down and think about what you are doing.

I agree. Officers especially get good paychecks. Love is blind, but you need to step back and re-evaluate the whole situation, before you get taken big time. He's setting a pattern that won't stop when he gets out of the army. Unless there is some special situation that you haven't mentioned, like is he wounded, or something. I know it can be rough for disabled veterans to get their benefits. But from you post it sounds like he is currently serving.