Marriage

[KristieBum]

What is everyones thoughts and views on marriage?

[AMBERTAYLOR31]

i am happily married.  i hated the idea of dating again,  if i ever became single again for any reason, i don't think i would ever date again.  i hate the idea of someone new having to learn me all over again.  i like the feeling of contentment that i have being married.  i like the commitment and i like having someone here with me everyday that i love and that is my best friend.

[KristieBum]

I totally agree...But myself I am currently seperated. But I am one who takes marriage and there vows very seriously. I am against the word divorce. But when the other spouse cheats should divorce be an option?

[dreamyxo]

I've never been married and don't plan on it.  I've never had the need or desire.

[jessbunny2317]

I feel that marriage is such a wonderful thing if used in the correct way. I feel that many people feel that marriage is something that can be taken lightly and keep doing it in their life. When you go up with you soul mate in front of the priest you swear to have to hold through sinkness and in health till death do us part. That is heavy and very serious. I have been with my husband and the father of my child for eleven years and i am only 26. We have been together since i was fifteen.

[cassandras08]

its and up and down road... but i love my husband...

[Kattieforbis]

I am planning my 2nd wedding this year. I'm soo excited to have my future with a man that truley loves me and appreciates me and takes care of me and loves my children as his own. He is an amazing man. But when I met him it was a fling and I told him I wouldn't ever get married again. WOW I was wrong!   We are gettting married 4/15/2012 I can't wait!

[articx]

I think marriage is unnecessary.

[geraldp1953]

I think marry is Great as long as you’re with the right person. I been married once and it don’t work out.

[mh874892]

I think marriage is taken way too lightly in today's society. People should not get married unless they fully intend to stay together forever. I married young, at 21, and I think I am an exception to most young people today. Lots tend to do it just to have fun, or to take care of a kid, among other reasons without really loving the person and wanting to be together for a lifetime. I fully intend to be with my best friend for the rest of our lives. The statistics are crazy high when referring to cheating and divorce, and it is so very scary to think that the world today does not take the institute of marriage seriously.

I am against the word divorce. But when the other spouse cheats should divorce be an option?

I have a really hard time with this issue. Like you, I don't think divorce should be an option. But, what to do in extreme cases? I honestly do not know how I would handle cheating. But, I think that is one instance in which divorce should be considered. Once the trust is gone, it will be very difficult, if not impossible, for the marriage to succeed.

[thetop31]

marriage let us have a partner, creat another family
but also creat some problems,sometimes big problems.

[d1cheetah]

I am planning my 2nd wedding this year. I'm soo excited to have my future with a man that truley loves me and appreciates me and takes care of me and loves my children as his own. He is an amazing man. But when I met him it was a fling and I told him I wouldn't ever get married again. WOW I was wrong!   We are gettting married 4/15/2012 I can't wait!

 Congratulations.  Look forward to your Special Day.   I have been married for 30 years as of last May.  We used to talk about growing old together and spending our later years rocking on the front porch looking out over the mountains.  Now we have done that, and she wants to move closer to our grandchildren before they grow up.  My only recommendation is to make sure you stay best friends with your spouse, no matter how pissed off you get at each other.  It will be a blessing down the road.

[AngelBaby234]

  my thoughts on marriage ? heres what I think I think marriage is a beautful thing that is shared by a man & a woman ! & is to be 50/50 & is enjoyed in many diff ways

[msbigbad17]

I have been married for 2 years now and find it to be a wonderful thing. My husband and I met 6 years ago for the first 2 years I was in a serious relationship with someone else. Then a few months after that relationship ended we began to date and did so for 7 months and then he asked me to marry him.  We were engaged and lived together for 2 years before we were married and I think that did us a world of good. Even though a lot of ppl where I'm from frown upon living together before you are married I think it should be a requirement before getting married! That is when you find out everything you loathe about someone! Leaving towels on the floor, folding clothes wrong, biting nails, all kinds of little habits that are usually excluded from a dating relationship. If you can survive each others faults and at the end of the day still truly love each other then you can get married!

[di1976]

Ok Ive been married for 4 months, I love it. Since I was a young girl I never wanted to get married. But I guess it's true what people say, " you will know when you meet the right one". And I have finally meet the right one.