What is wrong with married couples having separate rooms in the house?

[kapeh12]

One of my co-workers has arrangements like that in her marriage - they sleep in separate rooms; plus they each have their own "hobby" room where the other is not allowed in unless invited - so they each have a private space to themselves when they need it.  She even said they take vacations apart - due to him liking outdoor activities (her not so much), and she liked doing things like museum tours (which he couldn't stand).  She said they have their "together" activities, but completely trust each other so the separate activities don't bother them or hurt their relationship - it actually helps it.

So as long as your arrangement works for you, absolutely nothing wrong with it in my opinion.

[mjdoug03]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as you're both okay with it.  And as long as you set aside time to come together, I don't think it's a big deal.

[eman27]

I think if you have separate rooms and both of you are ok with this arrangement and it keeps the marriage thriving then I say go for it.  Especially since you have a disability and any noise bothers you then I see this as a caveat to the problem at hand.  However, if you did not have a disability and you guys just wanted separate rooms just because then I would be a little concerned.  But yet again, if this arrangement allows a positive energy flow and does not tamper with your marriage then I say go for it.  Wish you the best!!

[ghunter]

Nothing is wrong with him sleeping in separate rooms in the house, but still share the same bedroom. What I mean is my husband snores also and he sleeps in a different bed, but we still share the bedroom, but as long as you too are happy with it I guess it's ok.

[Azanne07]

i dont think anything is wrong with your situtation. And i think its more the reason why the couples have the seperate bedrooms than actually having the seperate rooms.

There are some days I sleep in the extra room because I just cant take the dogs in bed with us specially now that i am 7 months pregnant.

[letilebron]

we have separate rooms for work and studying purposes, but we sleep in the same bed at night...sometimes he falls asleep in his room and comes in when he realizes it. i don't see nothing wrong with that, besides you do need your own space at times.

[AISHASHOFUL]

If you need it there is nothing wrong with it so carry on.

[lotsofbabies77]

i dont think there is anything wrong with that..some times its the only way to keep your sanity and not kill one another..i had that situation for almost 8 years and i was a happy camper..

[patrick122068]

There is nothing wrong with it, but if i was married, i would rather we sleep in the same room and bed with my wife! If it works for some people, then that's okay!

[Queenmt]

I have been married for almost 8 years and I couldn't imagine not laying done to sleep next to my husband. In certain situations i understand why married people do it, in some cases I don't.