Should I get a divorce????

[StacyDuh]

My husband lies and lies, and I might add lies. The only time he tries to make me happy is when he knows I am fed-up! We have been together 7years, married for 2years, and have a 2year old daughter! How many times do you keep trying to make some work that is not working?

[L4v4]

Are you just spamming or is this for real?

[lgemini]

Marriage is a two way street.  If you are the only one of working to save the marriage then you are alone.  Try to get help first with a marriage counselor. I wish you good luck.

[margaret0524]

Divorse is not an easy road to live, especially with a child.   You are the only person who can truly know what you should do.

[noirlupe]

Think long and hard about what is good for you and your child.  I waited in a bad marriage until my daughters 13 & 15 begged me to leave and take them with me.  I guess I waited to long if they had to be the ones to want it.  I grew up in a home that had both parents and so badly wanted it for my girls.  I regret that I put us through the hell for so long.  They really hate their Dad and I havent talked bad about him, they just saw and still see how he is.  You really need to do what is right for the child,  they should always be first.

[mrstina08]

Always try to work it out. If you can. If your Husband dont want to. You cant make him or change him. Except it. Do the next best thing. Life is too short. Your daughter needs you, She doesnt deserve the drama.

[tashamjoy]

Dont get a divorce think of your little girl she wants to live with both parents she does not want to go back and forth all the time you can live together and maybe you will not be happy but it will be good for your daughter and marragie is not always good but u do not just go and get a divorce you work through it maybe you are not in love but at least you are not alone

[footemama]

I thought long and hard about how I wanted my child to grow up and what I wanted him to see from a long-term committed relationship. Basically how his dad was treating me (and him actually) was completely unacceptable and I asked about therapy, he refused and we separated. We are still married (because I couldn't afford to pay for a divorce being an underemployed single mom) but we are actually going to be getting the paperwork together shortly.

I wish you the best!

[arnelll]

Seek help first.. attend marriage sessions  to see if that help.. If not,  Hit the road Jake!!!!!!

[dreamyxo]

Yes you should get a divorce as soon as possible.

[mynevaeh]

If you actually have to ask yourself that question than I think you already have your answer.  YES!  It is not worth it.  If your husband is behaving this way than guess what?  He has not owned up to his end of his vows.  So do what you need to do to feel happy again because clearly you are not happy now, correct??

[Normandie]

Personally i think you should go to a counseler and get some professional help.  I just dont think this the best place to be asking these kind of questions. Just a thought 

[Tresbn00]

Are these significant lies like hiding the fact that he is seeing someone else/doing drugs/smoking...or are they little lies like he bought himself a beer/candy bar/played poker with his buds for an hour after work?  My wife has accused me of lying because I make a few extra pennies on the internet.  I tend to think that this is a tad nit-picky in the grand scheme of life.  Sometimes it comes down to a woman's perceptions versus a man's.  Over-all is your relationship sound?

[TaintedLust]

It's not about you or him, It's about your daughter. Kids come first In my opinion.

[inertia4]

Thats a decision you have to make, no one can tell you what to do. After all, you are the one in that position. I went through a separation and I am still separated. We will never get back together. To this day, I still don't know why she left. But, each relationship is different. Think long and hard before you make a rash decision like that, think of your child.