OMG! Right Now I Don`t Know Why I Am Married

[hensleyll]

My husband is the most hateful *bleep* i have ever run across!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOD Please Give Me Strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[PMZ908]

what happen?

[babyg7932]

My husband is the most hateful *bleep* i have ever run across!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOD Please Give Me Strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you know i can under stand that

[babyg7932]

girl mine uses me for my money i swear if he does not get a job by christmas i'm out after the first of the year i'm so done 

[debidoo]

Well, if misery loves company, I understand completely.  I have been married for approx 30 years and wish I had gotten a divorce a long time ago.  I hung in there because I thought God expected me to but now I am 58 years old and feel like I can't stand my husband and don't even want to try anymore.  I hope things get better for you, you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[ayerla41]

Life's too short. Get counseling. If that doesn't work, get a divorce.

[tigerlilly01]

are you married to my X husband .... or I forgot he is SATAN!!! 

[willow80834]

WOW   life is short if you are truly unhappy move on  you cant change someone

[kay7]

Better to get out now before you really hate him!  If you don't know why you're married, it makes little sense to stay married.  There's nothing good about being unhappy.

[BrittaJo14]

If you feel you have done everything you can to try to fix your marriage and make it work and know that you aren't ever going to be happy with it, my advice is to get a divorce. No one deserves to be unhappy all the time. Get out there and take some time for yourself. You don't need to rush into anything too quick. You usually find happiness when you least expect it. There is nothing you can do except do your best in a marriage, and you can't change anyone but yourself. I hope you find what makes you happy and wish you the best.

[franlee46]

My husband is the most hateful *bleep* i have ever run across!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOD Please Give Me Strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well what happened you never got that off of your chest. I would say communication is maybe a problem so if you can not resolve the issue whatever it may be then maybe get help. it is a little hard when no one knows your and his issue who knows if you spill the beans maybe this forum people can give better suggestions.

[dwg300]

I agree that you should try counseling, but if that doesn't work get a divorse.  Not only does this effect you, but it also effects the people around you.  When you are a unhappy person it will brings others around you down.  Get out and start thinking about yourself.  

[hensleyll]

My Biggest problem about leaving is he is going thru depression and is disabled ,can`t work and seeking medical treatment . He asked me before starting treatment if i would not leave him if he gets disabled. However i did tell him i will not stay if he doesnt stop being so mean and vindictive.He is the only one in the house who dont work he sits on couch all day thinking of things to pick a fight about with me or one of our kids,they are all over 20 .It`s like he is jealous or something!

[mawhite63]

Wow, that sounds really hard to live with. I'm really sorry.

[alwaysinstyle]

i think his disability makes him act like an *bleep*/
we all have problems.
can u leave him for couple of hours by himself?
just to see ...