what is the best way to ask a girl out.

[gadi50]

hey guys and girls help me, i like this girl and we been friends since 5th grade, and i like here idk if she likes me tho. and i want to ask her out how should i start?

[tantricia44]

Wow, you are so brave b/c asking someone you like but don't know if she will return the same feelings is really scary. First of all to divert complications check her out from a far, is she saying things about you with her female friends. Or is seeking out another person she may have a crush on. When you're with her, is she sending out signals to you that she is interested in you as more than just a friend. Go, to her female friends & ask them or hang out in the bathroom girls like to gossip. Once you have the bases above covered & you're mostly sure that she likes you. Go for it! If she says yes, take her to places that she likes best. (dancing,movies,skating,swimming,)
You just have to take that first step. Good luck!!!!

[gadi50]

i don`t know if i can do that, it all sounds too hard to do, and i sweat when i am around her. I get nervous when i see her all the time. but if i want to be with her for the rest of my life, i guise   i got to step up ha?

[footemama]

Do the two of you hang out alone ever or always in groups? What kind of a vib do you get from her when you are alone?

Also if she hangs around you in sweats with unwashed hair and unshaved legs then you are probably pretty much in friend territory. No girl/woman I know does that around a guy she is into even if she has know him forever.

Good Luck!

[gadi50]

she is clean, and she smells so beautiful around me. and we always hang out in groups sometimes we hang out alone. But when the moment comes(like about to kiss somebody always pops up, i hate it when it happens. but i think one of my friend likes her, and he wants to compete with me for her. But i don`t want to loose him or her.

[footemama]

If you already hang out alone sometimes then I would just ask her to go to the movies with you or something and see where it goes from there. As for your friend he should know how much are you into her and how long you have been into her so if he goes there that's his own bad and nothing that I would worry about too much. Any friend who is going to end your friendship over dating a girl is not a friend that you want to have. Just my two cents.

[dreamyxo]

Wave a wad of cash in front of her.   

[gadi50]

i guise i can ask her to go the the movies. maybe if i get lucky i might get to kiss her, or even go out with her. maybe i dont know i just hope.

[Repro]

yeah just ask her out and take her to the movies that's what I did and it works

[Sillyfrog0485]

Movies are always a decent start but personally I would go with something a little more fun and adventurous. When you at the movies you sit and watch.....how are you going to get a better idea if she feels the same if your not talking? Find an activity she really enjoys and do that to help bring out her personality and show her how fun you can be around. For example if she likes doing hiking or nature walks say he I found this really cool place would you like to go. Or if she likes sports go to an event together. Just make sure you like doing the same thing you are taking her to.

[Stealth3si]

Wave a wad of cash in front of her.  

lol That's the best advice I've seen so far in this thread.  

OP, make sure it's real cash, not monopoly money. 

[dawnc254]

Before you ask a girl out  ,get as much information about her ,so that you would not feel uncomfortable or when you actually get a date... then simple ask her based on her interests!!!  :thumbsup:eg , If she likes romantic movies,ask her if she saw the latest movie :"Whichever is new"

[remediagirl]

Give her flowers 

[tantricia44]

Making hard decisions is never plesent but if you chichen out & do nothing, that's also making somekind of decision. Take that first step. You'll never know if she likes you or not if you don't. Don't be like my friend George, he liked this girl in highschool but never got the nerve to ask her out. HS reuion, he finds out that for a long time she was in love with him but he never showd any interest to her then. 10 yrs later she married w/2 kids. So, go for it. Good luck, let us know what is the outcome of your mission. No matter what the outcome, your FC family will be here to support you! 

[cubarican210]

hey guys and girls help me, i like this girl and we been friends since 5th grade, and i like here idk if she likes me tho. and i want to ask her out how should i start?

You sound like a total sweetheart. I'm pretty sure she would say yes and if she doesn't say yes don't get mad. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I know it's hard to hear that but it is what it is. I have faith that you can do it. So put on your brave face and ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no. But the important thing is that you can keep her as your friend which is better than nothing. Good luck!