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bigedshult

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what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« on: August 05, 2011, 05:13:53 pm »
what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone.I wall ways thought we woud go places with all the money that we woud have senes we din'thave so meny bills to pay but i was all wrong .

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #1 on: August 05, 2011, 08:24:08 pm »
Mine Are All Grown up but two still live with me i get my grandkids every chance i can i guess to feel needed and to feel this hole in my heart!
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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #2 on: August 05, 2011, 08:41:15 pm »
I'mma travel and walk around the house as I'm pleased. On the real side imma b so BOARD,but I have a long way to go. my 20 year old still home, so go fish, and she my besty. She not going no where any time soonnnnnnnnn. :wave:

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #3 on: August 05, 2011, 08:59:54 pm »
Wow! My 20 year old has a daughter she supposedly still lives here but only see her occasionally use to be close to my 22 year old son but he slowly moving out the door my husband here but with the tv and games im basically invisable till it suits him so yes i`m lonely old woman,husband cant figure why i want the grandkids all the time .two boys one is 6 one is 8 and my granddaughter is 19 months
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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #4 on: August 06, 2011, 10:30:02 am »
I do what I please, whenever I please.  I would have a hard time adjusting to having someone around all the time.  They would also have a hard time adjusting to me and my habits.

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #5 on: August 06, 2011, 10:32:43 am »
my child has been gone for 7yrs i miss him

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #6 on: August 06, 2011, 10:55:37 am »
my son is 15, so always have a house full of kids...if he's not at a friends house, seems like at least four of his friends are here.  not sure what we'll do when he moves out, just the thought of a quiet house is enough to be depressing now!

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #7 on: August 08, 2011, 10:18:58 am »
After spending the morning chasing my granddaughter ,I now know i could never deal with having kids anymore.To Old No Patience Left!
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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2011, 11:23:04 am »
I really never thought about it.  But my son left last September and I know it was very hard on me, he is my only child and I didn't want him to go.  He moved out for about seven months and now he is back.  But he wants to get his own place so I was happy that he wanted to come back home.  The bills have not changed I thought without putting money out for school cloths and supplies and everything that comes into play when raising a child I would save, but we still don't have money to save.  I wonder how we did it if there is no extra money.  I look forward to having grandchildren some day (not soon) when he is a little older and gets married.
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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2011, 11:45:54 am »
My kids have been gone over two years now and I miss them.  I get my granddaugther every weekend and I see my daugther every weekend, but during the week I rest, when I get off from work and that' s that. :wave:

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2011, 11:49:56 am »
I Used to have my grandkids more then their parents did ,but can`t do it as muchanymore .But i love them like they are my own !
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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #11 on: August 09, 2011, 07:28:50 am »
I want to sit on the park bench and flip up women's skirts with my walking stick. Perhaps go to the bar and give the young gals long hugs... Just Kidding! (Although there are a few dirty old men where I sing karaoke that do just that sort of thing...  :sad1: ).

I'll probably do similar to what my parents are doing now. They tend to go traveling more, esp. if their cousins / siblings are also going on a trip they'll join them for a large group trip. They are also very active in volunteer activities... They work at this center for low income people (esp. elderly shut-ins) driving them to appointments or providing other services; during tax season, my dad volunteers as a tax preparer for these people.

And of course I'll probably hang out online chatting with my FC friends   :wave:

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #12 on: August 09, 2011, 07:44:09 am »
Sounds interesting? LOL! My husband and i do less now that the kids are gone, hey plays video games,watches the race, while i`m always on the internet! We have become our parents
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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #13 on: August 09, 2011, 04:09:55 pm »
I'm a high school senior and getting ready to leave for college. My mother is a single parent and doesn't have a lot of friends around. She did have a close friend but she moved to Europe several years back. Really, my mother only has my sibling (my twin and also leaving for college) and I to keep her company and I worry about what will happen to her once I leave next year. Any tips for me?

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Re: what do u think u will do when all ur kids are gone
« Reply #14 on: August 09, 2011, 06:34:51 pm »
I don't have any children I married an older lady I am 37 and she is 75 but right now we are seperated because I wanted to be by my family and she wants to be close to her children.  We go back and forth with that.  I guess I would be doing the same as I am now which isn't much but staying home and tinkering on these broken down cars.

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