Its never OK to hit a woman...Men who do that are punks

[saho44]

Guys who think they can hit their wives or girlfriends are wimps.  I was in a bad relationship for years and would get beaten by my husband for every mistake I made.  Not just that I would get beaten if the kids would get hurt because it was my fault that I wasnt watching them.  And then a miracle happened.  He fell in love with another woman and left the house.  I took advantage of the situation and changed locks and never let him back in again. I didnt have the courage to walk out on him but now I would never let anyone like him come near me.  I help other women who are in the same situation.

Good for you,its never ok for a man to hit a woman at all.

[tigerscene]

nover hit a women in my life but peolpe who do should be let go

[wjd22011]

i got slapped by a girl for calling her a *bleep* she was alot older than me i dont remember if it was hard b/c it was a long time ago and i was drunk it was in like 2008 but im pretty sure it was    

[cateyes1]

My ex husband use to hit me until he did it once to often then I turned around and got him too when he least expected it...after that I filed for a divorce....I agree nobody should be hitting anybody but I needed to give him some of his ouw medicen and then walk away, enough was enough...THE END!!

[Boise40]

I would grab a baseball bat if I ever catch a man hitting a woman and I would break every bone in his hands and arms. Then, he won't be able to hit another woman for a while. 

What would you do if you see a woman attacking a man?

I will just watch until it gets out of control and then, I will call the police to deal with her.

[blackish0t]

I wish a guy would hit me but of course that wouldn't happen cause I am with a girl. 

Why would you wish a guy to hit you? D:
And always keep in mind that girls can be abusive too. (Not saying that she is though)

And it's never OK for women to hit men.

Nobody, man or woman, should stay in a relationship with an abusive partner.

Exactly. I even saw on some show "What Would You Do" where they shown the guy being rough (Not even hitting) the girl and everyone and their mother came over to yell at him and call the police but when the girl was beating on the guy, nobody did anything and one girl even made a "you go girl" gesture. When asked, people said they assumed the guy did something wrong and deserved it which is a complete BS excuse anyway.

That is true, but I knew a girl who got upset because she thought her boyfriend was flirting with another girl and beat the poop out of him at the mall and tons of people called the cops. I feel like people shouldn't be okay with violence, no matter what!

[srikesena]

I agree!!

[mom2taz]

I totally agree...no one should hit anyone...male or female.

Just a silly note --  I was reading through some stuff on dumblaws dot com the other day and ran across this one:

In Huntington WV it is legal to beat your wife as long as it is done on Sunday and on the courthouse steps
 
wonder how old that one is.. 

[dell9031]

Its never okay to hit period......this is stuff you learn in kindergarten.....

[Lusie]

There is more abuse than physical abuse and I have been put through all of them. 

I have been there myself. In my situation it was a lot of mental abuse. Getting things thrown at you. I only physically got hit 4 times in the 13 years I was with him. But you learn to duck and some times that is not enough. Friends were not allowed unless they were already his. He cheated on me and raped me. Got told one time that the only reason a guy marries a fat woman is because no one else will want her so you never have to worry about her cheating on you. Yes it took me 13 years to leave him. The final straw was when he still refused to get a job when I was getting laid off from mine. He worked 3 out of the 13 years. I have been away from him for 3 years now and am still trying to get through the issues.

I do know that it does not matter the sex abuse is abuse and it is wrong. We are all suppose to love and care for one another and love and care for ourselves which is what I am having to relearn.

[wiersmak]

Works both ways.  Its never ok to hit anyone, unless we're talking about self defense.  Its about respect.  I was in one relationship where I was hit once.  I didnt give him the opportunity to do it twice.

[Adroden2010]

a man should never hit a woman. I put up with it for 8months then pne day I decided enough was enough . I left and  didnt tell my now ex that I was done.

[mynevaeh]

I agree No man should EVER put his hands on a woman no matter what!  Growing up I was in an abusive household where I would have to witness my mother be savagely beaten regularly and feared for my life for many years.  And he used to treaten my mother that if she ever tried to leave him he would kill us and he almost did.

[tazdad777]

I am so sorry to hear of the abuse you suffered at the hands of this low life. No woman has to put up with physical or verbal abuse for a man. Women who stay with men who abuse them are only endangering their own lives and their children if they have them. They are only fooling themselves if they believe his lies that he will never do it again, because he can't control himself. He needs professional help. If he agrees to get it then you can decide if you want to stay with him or not after he has completed his counseling and therapy and proves he is a different man and makes amends for the damage he has caused to you. But, don't take the abuse any more from him one more day. Get out while you still have your life or stay and take the risk of losing it at the hands of a man who never learned how to control his anger. You deserve better and so do your children. My prayers are with you.

[glenda1bruce]

My first husband like hitting me but we devorced and i wasn't going to put up with it.  We had three children together and we were high school sweet hearts, but he was brought up different than I his family was drinking all the time where I had a decent family and we stayed together until my youngest was 6 months old and slip I didn't remarry until my children where adults and it better not the greatest but better.