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Kiki1992

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How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« on: May 08, 2011, 08:10:55 pm »
If you're a Christian, you believe that the Bible says, marriage is between a man and woman (or something like that). Now, I know most Christians are not fully okay with homosexuality (doesn't mean they publicly stand against it).
 But what about you, if you're a Christian. How do you feel about homosexuality. Be honest. Do you think it's wrong according to the Bible (I'm not quoting!) or according to yourself?  And WHY  do you feel that way?


If you are not a Christian and do not believe in the Bible but are from a cultural background that doesn't accept most ways of living, how do you feel about homosexuality?

Everyone else can state their feelings on the matter but PLEASE state if you're a Christian or not, or if you're from a strict cultural background.
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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #1 on: May 08, 2011, 09:29:19 pm »
I don't subscribe to any religion.  I don't care what someone else does in the privacy of their own bedroom.  I have friends and relatives who are homosexual and it doesn't bother me one but.  They are who they are and I still love them. 

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #2 on: May 08, 2011, 10:31:58 pm »
mareg is bewen a man and wimen not bewen the same sex the lord did not dinse nem to live with other men sexually.

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #3 on: May 08, 2011, 11:12:29 pm »
I don't subscribe to any religion.  I don't care what someone else does in the privacy of their own bedroom.  I have friends and relatives who are homosexual and it doesn't bother me one but.  They are who they are and I still love them. 

Can I ask you this? You said you have friends and family who are homosexual which makes them who they are, which is different from what you are. My question: do you sometimes wish they were not who they are--that they were not homosexual?

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #4 on: May 09, 2011, 06:14:09 am »
I am a Christian but quite liberal.  I myself wouldn't choose a homosexual lifestyle but don't think that it is wrong for two people of the same sex being in love with each other.  I think that one of the main precepts of the bible is love. I am not a bible analyst but I don't believe that the bible condones marriage between same sex couples.  But I think that the Government should recognize the bond between two people regardless of their sex so that they may utilize the same benefits offered to married couples.

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #5 on: May 09, 2011, 07:15:46 am »
I am a Christian, I have studied Scripture, and I see nothing wrong with it.  I wouldn't choose it for myself, but then again, I'm not attracted to members of the same sex.  Love between two people of the same gender is not sinful in my opinion.

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #6 on: May 09, 2011, 08:25:44 am »
I'm an atheist and I believe we all have the right to do what we want with our bodies as long as you don't hurt others (*unless with consent*). Homosexuality is definitely acceptable. I do not understand how people can live in America and claim they want "god given freedom" and yet restrict their beliefs so much that they are no longer free. A person can make a choice to help others, protect the environment, chose a love partner, pick a religion. All of these are choices. I chose to treat others with respect as well as their beliefs even if they are different. Even if you are religious you have a choice as to what message you take from your religions teachings. You do not have to chose all or none that is the great thing about being human.

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #7 on: May 09, 2011, 08:34:25 am »
I don't subscribe to any religion.  I don't care what someone else does in the privacy of their own bedroom.  I have friends and relatives who are homosexual and it doesn't bother me one but.  They are who they are and I still love them. 

Ditto ! :)

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #8 on: May 09, 2011, 09:52:49 am »
I don't subscribe to any religion.  I don't care what someone else does in the privacy of their own bedroom.  I have friends and relatives who are homosexual and it doesn't bother me one but.  They are who they are and I still love them. 

Can I ask you this? You said you have friends and family who are homosexual which makes them who they are, which is different from what you are. My question: do you sometimes wish they were not who they are--that they were not homosexual?

It doesn't matter to me one bit.  That's like asking do I wish they didn't have brown eyes.  If they are homosexual who cares I certainly don't.  I know them as the people they are.  Heck I didn't even know a couple of my cousins were homosexual until a few years ago because the thought never crossed my mind because I grew up knowing them as the people they are not who they have sex with.  These are older cousins. 

Sexuality is only one small aspect of our lives.  It doesn't matter who they chose to love they are the same people regardless of their sexual preference.  Their intelligence, humor, personality, who they are at their core level is the same no matter what their sexual preference is.

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #9 on: May 09, 2011, 10:58:25 am »
I am a Christian, but this issue has always stumped me... From a religious aspect, I tend to look at the Bible as a guide for our lives so that we as humans can live happy, healthy lives. Many of the ideas in the Bible that may have been important for ancient cultures may no longer be relevant for today's world. Take, for example, the Jewish food laws (which BTW are in the books of Leviticus and Deuteronomy, which is the same place that first mentions how it is wrong for a man to sleep with another man). When the food laws were first established, we humans had many problems from food-born illnesses. Lack of refrigeration, sanitation, and knowledge about how to properly prepare and cook foods all caused to people being sick and even dying from what they ate. The food laws were therefore a primitive attempt to determine how to properly prepare and cook foods so as to limit the food problems that afflicted these people. Instead of trying to determine what temperature to properly cook and thereby killing the worm causing trichinosis, it was just easier to proscribe the consumption of pork. Instead of determining proper sanitation and washing techniques to decrease the problems of cross-contamination, it was just found that forbidding the mixing of utensils for meat and dairy would cut down on this problem. If looked at from this perspective, then the sex laws of the old testament (homosexuality, bestiality, promiscuity, etc.) were an attempt to regulate sexual health so as to prevent (or at least limit) sexually transmitted diseases. Take, for example, the modern example of HIV/AIDS. It is thought that the disease was first introduced into our species when someone had sex with some monkey (*bleep*), and was eventually transmitted to others via promiscuity as well as homosexuality (the latter being that there is more possibility of rippage of the colorectal lining causing direct access for the virus to enter the bloodstream). Yet today we have access to contraceptives as well as screening / testing for most known STDs which can help decrease the spread of STDs. And the main issue with the spread of STDs has always been the problem of promiscuity in our culture. However there never seems to be as loud of a cry against promiscuity (at least among the general public) as there is against homosexuality. From a religious perspective, I can understand how the Church can see all of these practices as being wrong, and that the best way (from a sexual health perspective) to engage in sex is from the context of marriage.

However, because we don't live in a theocracy where we are rules by Biblical laws, our laws must account for people that want to live free of these laws. Since homosexuality really becomes an issue in sexual health if it also includes promiscuity, then I think what would be best would be for a way to allow it it a more monogamous manner (I know, "monogamy" really means a marriage between one couple, but I can't think of the appropriate word). As for how the government should handle this, I therefore think there should be a way to provide the same benefits to homosexual couples as with married couples (to encourage stable couples). I can understand that the term "marriage" may be held with higher esteem in religious circles, so I'd rather the laws would allow for "civil unions" of which "marriage" is just just one means by which the government can recognize a "civil union" between a couple.

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #10 on: May 09, 2011, 12:25:36 pm »
I read the bible and draw my own opinion. the bible was written before homsexuality was out in the open. there might have been people during the age of christ that felt the same way homsexuals feel today.

so as times change can we really say that god and jesus are against homsexuality. can we really know what they are thinking?

i have a friend who is gay and i have no problems with that

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #11 on: May 09, 2011, 02:03:24 pm »
I am a christian and I believe there is nothing wrong with being a homosexual.  My best friend in High School was homosexual and he was the best.  We always had a lot of fun together.  The world has changed since man wrote the bible based on their beliefs.  I say get over it, get past it and move on and stop judging other people. 
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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #12 on: May 11, 2011, 01:02:37 am »
I am a Christian, but this issue has always stumped me... From a religious aspect, I tend to look at the Bible as a guide for our lives so that we as humans can live happy, healthy lives. Many of the ideas in the Bible that may have been important for ancient cultures may no longer be relevant for today's world. Take, for example, the Jewish food laws (which BTW are in the books of Leviticus and Deuteronomy, which is the same place that first mentions how it is wrong for a man to sleep with another man). When the food laws were first established, we humans had many problems from food-born illnesses. Lack of refrigeration, sanitation, and knowledge about how to properly prepare and cook foods all caused to people being sick and even dying from what they ate. The food laws were therefore a primitive attempt to determine how to properly prepare and cook foods so as to limit the food problems that afflicted these people. Instead of trying to determine what temperature to properly cook and thereby killing the worm causing trichinosis, it was just easier to proscribe the consumption of pork. Instead of determining proper sanitation and washing techniques to decrease the problems of cross-contamination, it was just found that forbidding the mixing of utensils for meat and dairy would cut down on this problem. If looked at from this perspective, then the sex laws of the old testament (homosexuality, bestiality, promiscuity, etc.) were an attempt to regulate sexual health so as to prevent (or at least limit) sexually transmitted diseases. Take, for example, the modern example of HIV/AIDS. It is thought that the disease was first introduced into our species when someone had sex with some monkey (*bleep*), and was eventually transmitted to others via promiscuity as well as homosexuality (the latter being that there is more possibility of rippage of the colorectal lining causing direct access for the virus to enter the bloodstream). Yet today we have access to contraceptives as well as screening / testing for most known STDs which can help decrease the spread of STDs. And the main issue with the spread of STDs has always been the problem of promiscuity in our culture. However there never seems to be as loud of a cry against promiscuity (at least among the general public) as there is against homosexuality. From a religious perspective, I can understand how the Church can see all of these practices as being wrong, and that the best way (from a sexual health perspective) to engage in sex is from the context of marriage.

However, because we don't live in a theocracy where we are rules by Biblical laws, our laws must account for people that want to live free of these laws. Since homosexuality really becomes an issue in sexual health if it also includes promiscuity, then I think what would be best would be for a way to allow it it a more monogamous manner (I know, "monogamy" really means a marriage between one couple, but I can't think of the appropriate word). As for how the government should handle this, I therefore think there should be a way to provide the same benefits to homosexual couples as with married couples (to encourage stable couples). I can understand that the term "marriage" may be held with higher esteem in religious circles, so I'd rather the laws would allow for "civil unions" of which "marriage" is just just one means by which the government can recognize a "civil union" between a couple.

I really like your very thorough response, and I agree with you all the way.

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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #13 on: May 11, 2011, 05:13:36 am »
It is a sin and a sickness.
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Re: How do you really feel about homosexuality?
« Reply #14 on: May 11, 2011, 09:57:55 am »
I am an agnostic, raised Christian, and I have never had a problem with homosexuals. I've always thought that sexuality isn't as important as being a good person. There are so many people who hate homosexuals and still call themselves Christians, I'm sorry, but those people are false Christians. Hatred does not belong in religion.

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