how old or young were you when you had sex the 1st time

[amstewart]

I was 15 and regret it.  Not a good experience or memory. I wish I would've waited.
My pastor did a sermon series recently on the Songs and I wish I would've heard it as a teenager.
I pray my boys don't fall into this adult, married experience before their time.  Sex has too much influence and power in our society.
It is meant to be cherished between husband and wife in the sanctity of marriage.  Media plays such a big part in the illusion that
one needs to be sexual.  Not true!

[Annella]

Girls, save yourself for that man you are going to marry. There's something very special giving that gift to the one you love on your wedding day. As old fashioned as it sounds, there is a blessing in it.

Sex isn't a "gift".     And asking anyone to abstain from it until marriage is unreasonable and unnecessary on many counts.  The better way to live is to aim to only have protected sex in committed relationships.

Since I'm a Minister and know the scriptures and you are an atheist and don't believe in God or the Bible then we are going to be in disagreement in everything qon.......like we have been ever since I became a member of Fusion Cash.

I've done extensive study on how premarital sex fragments the psyche and personality of any individual as it is done without the blessings of God and the sacrament of marriage (it's sin....fornication). The sexual act is a spiritual act and things get passed during that "act". It must be blessed and condoned by God to be the fulfilling and bonding that He provided for it to be. People who engage in it outside the bonds of marriage and the blessings of God do themselves harm in ways they don't understand (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc).

It was my post that you zeroed in on to refute because of your hate and discontent with any Christian, and me in particular. What an absolute miserable person you must be. You have exhibited the most abrasive, ill mannered, hateful personality I have ever come across since I've been here, and I have no desire to talk with you anymore. I have told you this before, but you follow me around this forum occasionally just to get in your jabs.

I was 15 and regret it.  Not a good experience or memory. I wish I would've waited.
My pastor did a sermon series recently on the Songs and I wish I would've heard it as a teenager.
I pray my boys don't fall into this adult, married experience before their time.  Sex has too much influence and power in our society.
It is meant to be cherished between husband and wife in the sanctity of marriage.  Media plays such a big part in the illusion that
one needs to be sexual.  Not true!

Your regret is actually repentance and God can make a wrong and turn it right. I perceive your heart is tender. God loves a repentant and contrite heart as you have. God bless you richly. He loves us so much.

[diala84]

I was 18 and I never had really considered myself one to save it.  I just didn't have any boyfriends before I was 18. Overall my first experience was good and it happened at the right time for me with a decent guy that I considered to be a good friend. The relationship didn't work out in the end and as friends we drifted apart but I don't have any grudges about it.   

[queenofnines]

I've done extensive study on how premarital sex fragments the psyche and personality of any individual as it is done without the blessings of God and the sacrament of marriage (it's sin....fornication). The sexual act is a spiritual act and things get passed during that "act". It must be blessed and condoned by God to be the fulfilling and bonding that He provided for it to be. People who engage in it outside the bonds of marriage and the blessings of God do themselves harm in ways they don't understand (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc).

This is bull.  Having sex exclusively in a Christian marriage provides no guarantees, or better success rate for that matter.  Plenty of married Christians are plagued by sexless marriages, infidelity, degrading sexual acts, etc.

It was my post that you zeroed in on to refute because of your hate and discontent with any Christian, and me in particular.

Once again, you're quite full of yourself.  I would have responded to anyone who made a stupid comment like that.

What an absolute miserable person you must be.

Just because someone challenges your unfounded Jesus babble, that automatically makes them "miserable"?  Didn't anyone ever teach you how to handle constructive criticism?

You have exhibited the most abrasive, ill mannered, hateful personality I have ever come across since I've been here, and I have no desire to talk with you anymore.

If that were the case, you would have been a "big" enough person and ignored my perfectly logical, reasonable response to your post.  The broken record strikes again!

you follow me around this forum occasionally just to get in your jabs.

Oh snap!!  I've been found out!!!  Quick, hide the "We hate Annella" mugs and other memorabilia from the fan club!!!

 

[g0ku4life]

I waited until I was in love...27.

[ghunter]

I was 18 years old and he was my first and I married him and we have been marry for 35 years, I tried to make sure he would be my husband and thanks be to God we are still married this day and he is the only person I had sex with, so young ladies chose wisley.

[Annella]

I've done extensive study on how premarital sex fragments the psyche and personality of any individual as it is done without the blessings of God and the sacrament of marriage (it's sin....fornication). The sexual act is a spiritual act and things get passed during that "act". It must be blessed and condoned by God to be the fulfilling and bonding that He provided for it to be. People who engage in it outside the bonds of marriage and the blessings of God do themselves harm in ways they don't understand (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc).

This is bull.  Having sex exclusively in a Christian marriage provides no guarantees, or better success rate for that matter.  Plenty of married Christians are plagued by sexless marriages, infidelity, degrading sexual acts, etc.

It was my post that you zeroed in on to refute because of your hate and discontent with any Christian, and me in particular.

Once again, you're quite full of yourself.  I would have responded to anyone who made a stupid comment like that.

What an absolute miserable person you must be.

Just because someone challenges your unfounded Jesus babble, that automatically makes them "miserable"?  Didn't anyone ever teach you how to handle constructive criticism?

You have exhibited the most abrasive, ill mannered, hateful personality I have ever come across since I've been here, and I have no desire to talk with you anymore.

If that were the case, you would have been a "big" enough person and ignored my perfectly logical, reasonable response to your post.  The broken record strikes again!

you follow me around this forum occasionally just to get in your jabs.

Oh snap!!  I've been found out!!!  Quick, hide the "We hate Annella" mugs and other memorabilia from the fan club!!!

Oh, my response is stupid, bull, and Jesus babble, and yours is perfectly logical, and reasonable? Good luck with your delusional stance that your all that.    

[35klye]

let me think, if im 13, then... about 8 years ago

[falcon9]

Oh, my response is stupid, bull, and Jesus babble, and yours is perfectly logical, and reasonable?

It may not have been "perfectly" logical and reasonable however, QoN's reply was demonstrably more reasonable and logical than your unreasoned and illogical 'opinion' was.  This observation was made by reading the recent exchanges in this thread, discerning which aspects were logical and reasonable, (no matter who wrote them), and then posting the rational conclusion.

Good luck with your delusional stance that your all that.    

Ironically, your mirror reflects only your image and not your projections.

[Adroden2010]

I was  18

[Annella]

Oh, my response is stupid, bull, and Jesus babble, and yours is perfectly logical, and reasonable?

It may not have been "perfectly" logical and reasonable however, QoN's reply was demonstrably more reasonable and logical than your unreasoned and illogical 'opinion' was.  This observation was made by reading the recent exchanges in this thread, discerning which aspects were logical and reasonable, (no matter who wrote them), and then posting the rational conclusion.

Good luck with your delusional stance that your all that.    

Ironically, your mirror reflects only your image and not your projections.

Wait a minute, aren't you leaving something out here that should be brought to light?  Your observation and stance is biased considering your responses of your total unbelief of the Bible in another thread earlier today. Did you just follow me in here from the other thread to negatively respond to me again because I'm a Christian?

Why is qon's response more reasonable and logical than mine? Why is mine unreasonable and illogical according to you? I'll tell you why.....because neither one of you believe in God or His Word which teaches us to keep ourselves pure before marriage.

I guess you think the moral fiber of our Nation is on firm ground today? Let's leave the Bible out of it and just think about how sex is pedaled to the masses through mainstream media, movies, music, etc. Of teen pregnancy, promiscuity, etc. Where did sexually transmitted diseases come from? I guess I could go on and on but some things are just common sense.

[tigerscene]

it was about i was 16 years old,i think  for my 1 st time for sex

[queenofnines]

I guess you think the moral fiber of our Nation is on firm ground today? Let's leave the Bible out of it and just think about how sex is pedaled to the masses through mainstream media, movies, music, etc. Of teen pregnancy, promiscuity, etc.

Ironically, it is the religious stance of abstinence only that produces a large number of teen pregnancies.  Also, the less religious a country is, the better off it is in the areas you listed, and both of these statements are fact (America is a highly religious country, in case you forgot).

[kqa]

I was 18 and married.

[ashleyxatrocity]

I was 15 at the time and I will openly admit that I wasn't in love with him. He was just a boyfriend and we decided that we would act on our hormonal urges. I have no regrets about it whatsoever because these were natural urges and even though our relationship didn't work out, we're still friends. I'm 25 now and have NEVER experienced any of the "ill effects" of premarital sex (STDs, unplanned children, etc.).