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thetotalfool

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #15 on: April 14, 2011, 10:50:33 am »
I don't.  It's usually somebody going door-to-door begging for cash, or somebody doing a religious thing.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #16 on: April 14, 2011, 11:39:47 am »
The only people that would come at my door besides family would be those guys that are giving out bibles or spreading the word of God or whatever. I usually never open the door even a little bit to anybody unless its like family or the pizza guy.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #17 on: April 14, 2011, 01:43:00 pm »
I am thankful that I live in a safe area.  I answer my door without fear.  My neighbors are so nosy they know who is knocking before  I do.  They also know more people than I do, so I sometimes ask them who it was. 

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #18 on: April 14, 2011, 02:47:11 pm »
If I'm alone in the house, I don't open the door unless I see the person is a utility worker from the electric company or gas company. Other than that, I'm not opening the door. I have a window that lets me see who's at the front door. If they show me ID proving they are in fact who they say they are then I open the door. Safety comes first at all times.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #19 on: April 14, 2011, 04:36:16 pm »
I had an experience with opening the door to the wrong person. Not a mistake I will repeat if at all possible.  Whenever anyone comes to visit me, I won't answer the door unless they are knocking on the door while calling me on the phone.  Call me paranoid if you wish, but as I get older, there are fewer people I trust, especially if I am home alone with my daughter.



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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #20 on: April 14, 2011, 04:53:06 pm »
Usually no and if I do I would speak through the steel screen door.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #21 on: April 14, 2011, 05:00:48 pm »
I have taught my children to never answer the door for anyone they don't know,  and I have to set a good example so I do likewise.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #22 on: April 14, 2011, 05:18:48 pm »
well that would probably depend on what time of the day/night it was. day time i probably would. now if someone i don't know comes knocking on my door in the middle of the night then know i wouldn't. i'm cautious but i'm not a wimp. honestly i think sometimes woman get a bit to paranoid.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #23 on: April 15, 2011, 04:47:06 am »
I always ask when someone knocks on the door.  My living room window is next to my front door so I can tell who is out there before I open my door.  It is not safe these days to open your door or let anyone in.  It is a shame that today there are so many dishonest poeple in this world.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #24 on: April 16, 2011, 07:11:54 am »
NO. I leave the chain on and have my dog nearby.

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #25 on: April 16, 2011, 07:52:05 pm »
no I don't I look them ask who it is then I decide

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #26 on: April 16, 2011, 09:10:17 pm »
well that would probably depend on what time of the day/night it was. day time i probably would. now if someone i don't know comes knocking on my door in the middle of the night then know i wouldn't. i'm cautious but i'm not a wimp. honestly i think sometimes woman get a bit to paranoid.

I think there are perfectly good reasons to be paranoid nowadays.  I live in a po dunk town in Kentucky, and I opened my door and was forced to drive a drug addict around town to find his next fix.  I am grateful that my two year old daughter was not with me at home that evening.  I would rather be paranoid than kidnapped or raped.



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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #27 on: April 17, 2011, 03:20:58 am »
im from new york so definatly no no to opening the door

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #28 on: April 17, 2011, 09:32:15 pm »
No, I never open the door for someone I don't know . People are always trying to sell something in my neighborhood and there are just a lot of crazy people in this world

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Re: Do you open your door if you don't know the person standing outside?
« Reply #29 on: April 17, 2011, 11:34:09 pm »
most of the time i do .u can find out a lot of thing if u open the door.that u would not know if u did not.

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