You really ought to take lessons from the true Christians on here (jcribb, sherlsshadow, a few others not around) because they remain open to hearing from we 'awful people' and aren't blatantly hypocritical and 'shallow' like you appear to be in what you've written.
@jordandog
There's something about saying someone is a "true Christian" and implying someone else is not that makes me uncomfortable. I think every Christian should strive to be the best example of the Lord that they are following. We're called to be 'humble servants' just as Jesus was. There's no record of Jesus ever being "cocky". Christians aren't perfect, one can't expect them to be because no one IS perfect.
You all know I'm not perfect...and I KNOW you (as well as the others) are NOT 'awful people' and are NOT blatantly hypocritical or shallow. Remember that is something that I had "to learn" though. When I first came on FC, I treated unbelievers BADLY. I'm not even sure why or where it comes from that so many Believers think it's ok to act like that. If it hadn't been for falconer02, I could STILL be "mean"... I would have missed out on each one of you which, would have been sad because I consider each one of you to be a Special Blessing in my life.
I see what you are saying re my "true Christian" reference. I should have worded it differently (that good old 'hindsight'), but in my mind
I knew what traits I was thinking of and they were not traits that came through in richrd42's words.
Christians aren't perfect, one can't expect them to be because no one IS perfect.
I try my best NOT to put expectations on anyone but myself, all that does is lead to disappointment. I know my own capabilities and also my limits. It is the members who not only imply their 'perfection', because they can say they are Christian, but also imply we non-religious don't have a snowball's chance in Hades to become worthy of existing on the same planet with them
unless we surrender and submit as they have. I have to wonder if richrd42 will come back to this topic, see posts after his, and [possibly] reconsider his own wording and how it came across. That alone is another key difference and ties in with what you said about yourself when you began posting in the Forums. If you/me/anyone didn't have the desire to learn why a particular opinion's given or a particular view is taken, we learn nothing and remain stagnate in our own little world of "I am right and they are all wrong!". I've told my friends/family I don't want to
ever be remembered as 'a grumpy old broad who never listened to anyone else because
she was always right'. Thankfully, I am able to come to FC, take the burdens of life off my shoulders for awhile, and interract with the friends like you (and enemies too
) I have gained here. Correct me, put me in line, make me take a look at a different point of view; just do it without holding empty threats over my head such as, "You will burn in h*ll and I won't."