Quote from jcribb:
What bothers me is when new people come in and want to express what they think about the topic at hand and right away someone comes at them calling their beliefs delusional, fairy tale, silly, etc., instead of questioning why they believe that way, or listing a couple of reasons why they disagree with the person.
Quote from Falconer:
I disagree with the name calling aspect here because-
Delusion- a fixed false belief that is resistant to reason or confrontation with actual fact
Fairy Tale- an incredible or misleading statement, account, or belief
Silly- absurd; ridiculous; irrational
You'd probably get disgruntled over any of these words within the definitions anyhow. But you and Annella have demonstrated these attributes beyond the call of duty. So, even though I'm really trying to choose my words here and trying not to sound antagonizing, I still expect an emotional uproar of how I'm rude and horrible I am for pointing out the obvious.
Falconer, I'm not calling you rude and horrible.
This is where the problem lies: I believe in Christ, through faith. Faith is something that you have trust in even though you can't see it. The Bible is God's Word and it explains faith and why we believe. Now to us, professing Christians, it is not a delusion or a fairy tale, nor is it silly. Instead of calling people or their beliefs that, give opposite reasons for why you believe the way you do. There is a poster that discusses their scientific view of things. That's fine - it opens the door for more discussion. But, when a person is immediately cut off and name called, then the other person gets defensive of their view and feels like then they are defending themselves from the name calling itself instead of being able to discuss the opposite person's views, pros and cons, etc. Everyone in this forum has the right to express their view without being trampled on with name calling. They would like the opportunity to discuss What, Why, and How they believe or feel about something. Instead certain ones don't give them the opportunity to do so. That's where my problem lies.