are you Serious???

[ButterflyWings]

K not many things annoy me I am easy to get along with and talk to..But I have a issue with fake people who are dishonest and sneaky..K with that said I need to vent....

I have a friend who well has always be not really open with me..She gets upset with me but does stupid *bleep* to annoy me rather than tell me her issue..Which is so damn immature.....Well she got upset...Cause her dumb *bleep* thinks I said something to her kid which I never would and instead of asking me she goes tells her kids not to talk or wave to me and gives me the cold shoulder..UMMM WTF are you serious are we in elementary you cannot be adult enough to talk to me you resort to childish behavior!!

How do you feel about people who cannot be themselves and be open when they have a issues??

Or people who are just fake and dishonest??

[karenkpc]

I call people on their stuff.  if we can't discuss and be honest, then we need to move on, because I surely don't have the head space or the time to invest in that sort of behavior and/or relationship.

[lucky382001]

Your friend is passive aggressive. 

I can't really advise you on how to handle it with your friend but with mine we talk about the good the bad and the ugly. We always work things out which is probably why we are still friends.

[ElleRich]

Life is too short to be to spend time with your "friend" with all the games she plays and issues she has...time to  move on...

[Cuppycake]

Honestly my ex-husband and my ex-bestfriend  (who are now "engaged") are the fakest people I have ever had the displeasure of knowing in my entire freaking life! I know EXACTLY what you mean. Some people are just hollow, worthless,  plastic , pieces of garbage.

[ButterflyWings]

Thanks all...I tried to talk to her and she played the huh what game then went on facebook called me a asstard..city something and trash to try to get me to become angry and confrontational so I deleted her and blocked her I have no time for people like that she even got her husband to join in..I am a forgiving and open person but games are not my cup of tea be honest and a friend or get to stepping thanks all 

[udontgetmyname]

I've had enough experiances with "friends" that give you way to much BS. If someone starts being a jerk or whateves I tell em that they are. If they stop, great, if they dont, it probably wasnt worth being there friend any way and I'd rather hang with other people.

[jcribb16]

   It sounds like you've done all you could - now the ball is in her court, so to speak.  Deleting her off FB was a good idea.  You've got so much going on in your life that is better than playing those games with her.  It appears that she is the one who has lost a good friend. Hang in there.

[ButterflyWings]

  It sounds like you've done all you could - now the ball is in her court, so to speak.  Deleting her off FB was a good idea.  You've got so much going on in your life that is better than playing those games with her.  It appears that she is the one who has lost a good friend. Hang in there.

Thanks Jcribb it was hard...But I have been so fair and a little to forgiving for to long..And yes games are for children not adults lol..Thanks I felt like a crappy friend last night cause I let her and her hubby's words effect me..But that's cause I am so darn caring..But I appreciate you saying I am a good friend..

[SarahPunk]

Try not to give them too much of your time or worry. They're not worth it. Frankly, I wonder if when they get old and weak, is anyone going to be there for them? What is a life when you waste it being fake? All being fake does is screw people over including yourself. Atleast if you're yourself... even if you're a biscuit.... then you know whoever loves you is with you because they love you and know you think they should love. Does that make any sense? Also, I think there are a lot of people in this world who just need to grow up. There are so many petty arguments and whining adults these days. You're "friend" needs to put on her big girl panties and get over it or one day she's gonna find herself without anyone.

[jcribb16]

  It sounds like you've done all you could - now the ball is in her court, so to speak.  Deleting her off FB was a good idea.  You've got so much going on in your life that is better than playing those games with her.  It appears that she is the one who has lost a good friend. Hang in there.

Thanks Jcribb it was hard...But I have been so fair and a little to forgiving for to long..And yes games are for children not adults lol..Thanks I felt like a crappy friend last night cause I let her and her hubby's words effect me..But that's cause I am so darn caring..But I appreciate you saying I am a good friend..

You're welcome.  I just hope it gets better, mainly for your sake. 

[Brichmon]

people are built different , when confronted with a real person they re-vert back to , to what their used to thus being fake n dishonest

[workmama]

Sad but true about how the world is filled with fake and dishonest people. When I am in a similar situation...and believe me, I have been there....I just remember that I am a better person and have always been with to began with. This is my attitude in life...to be better than you think you are capable of...to strive harder everyday. No one or words can bring you down, only if you let them. 
~workmama~ 

[jabkman]

sneaky snakes are bad, but some people are desperate to have friends and they just need someone who can help them through their troubles... take a few minutes of your time and try talking to a poser!!!

[ButterflyWings]

Try not to give them too much of your time or worry. They're not worth it. Frankly, I wonder if when they get old and weak, is anyone going to be there for them? What is a life when you waste it being fake? All being fake does is screw people over including yourself. Atleast if you're yourself... even if you're a biscuit.... then you know whoever loves you is with you because they love you and know you think they should love. Does that make any sense? Also, I think there are a lot of people in this world who just need to grow up. There are so many petty arguments and whining adults these days. You're "friend" needs to put on her big girl panties and get over it or one day she's gonna find herself without anyone.

I agree totally hun and big girl panties OMG I laughed so hard...